From my experience, lelaki ni tak expressive macam perempuan - they sometimes like to hold back their feelings.Sometimes susah nak baca.Sometimes, I would be lleft wondering what went wrong or right.
Aku pulak, when I am into someone, aku boleh jadik sangat dependent n manja.. Selalu nak assurance daripada lelaki that I am being loved.Pastu senang majuk - god I hate myself!
Anyways, I have had a share of this.In fact, hati rasa sedih because I am into someone.Tapi mak aihh.. selalu la aku rasa kena abandoned by him.It is his job that makes him so hard to reach.Nak jumpa pun.. mak aihh... lagi senang jumpa menteri lah!
At one point, I thought, lantak la nko.Malas dah nak layan.I better go for someone yang kejar aku.Yesterday, he emailed me, wishing me a happy valentines.Told me that I am special to him and that he is sorry for being a jerk neglecting me (huh, tau pun nko tu jerk)...but he said that he has some personal issue to resolve bla bla..And things would be back to normal.
Aku tak pernah sibuk dengan urusan dia.Mmg aku tak suka masuk campur - but him being like that - selalu neglect aku - got me curious.Tapi aku masih takmo nak tanya lagi, and he did say that one day he will tell me everything - gasak la nko nyah..
Sebenarnya, aku letih tau...And i said that I am going to turn lesbian at this rate (aku joking of course..).Malas nak fikir lelaki dah.. Dia cakap, jangan la turn lesbian...Pastu boleh pulak dia cakap - klu nak try sekali boleh la.. but tell him in advance so that dia boleh get popcorn and take a seat to watch.Hampeh betul!
Berbalik pada isu kejujuran.. aku tak pernah question whether dia ni jujur or tipu.Ntah la...Yg aku tau, aku tak pernah sangsi dengan apa yg dia cerita pada aku.I dont know if I am in love with him, but what scares me most is, when I see the picture of my own face,I see him.Macam ada iras..Dan once dia pernah cakap kt aku, masa tu kitaorang mula2 kenal, dia kata, "sometimes it feels like I know you"
Dan dia muncul dalam hidup aku only days after aku cakap ngan sorang kawan aku "I want a ****** boyfriend that drives like a devil".He fit the picture.
Takutnya...
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Reply #1 elizah's post
senang je nak tau...dri ati naluri sendiri cz naluri pompan kuat....n kalu nak tau die curangker,senang gak nak tau cz biasenye,org lelaki(x semua ar) kalu dah curang dgn kite,die agak berbeza sekali.......cara die ckp dgn kite,layan kie, n sume ar....yer ar,dah wat salah katakan.........hehehehehehe....;P ;P ;P ;P ;P Originally posted by ainis at 16-2-2008 11:41 AM http://forum3.cari.com.my/images/common/back.gifsenang je nak tau...dri ati naluri sendiri cz naluri pompan kuat....n kalu nak tau die curangker,senang gak nak tau cz biasenye,org lelaki(x semua ar) kalu dah curang dgn kite,die agak berbeza...
Klu ikut kajian psikologi. Bila lelaki tetiba extra nice, extra doty, extra caring, extra pemurah kt kita.. itu mungkin antara symptoms yang dia dah curang aka langgar pantang besar...It's a guilt response.
And tak tau la korang, but I myself klu rapat ngan seseorang, I would have strong instinct myself.Mmg rasa if something isn't right. Take note ye gals.. Berbalik pada isu kejujuran.. aku tak pernah question whether dia nijujur or tipu.Ntah la...Yg aku tau, aku tak pernah sangsi denganapa yg dia cerita pada aku.I dont know if I am in love with him, butwhat scares me most is, when I see the picture of my own face,I seehim.Macam ada iras..Dan once dia pernah cakap kt aku, masa tukitaorang mula2 kenal, dia kata, "sometimes it feels like I know you"
Nenek dah angau betul dah nih ...nak tanye ..... what makes him so special to you ? :loveliness::loveliness: Originally posted by thedude at 16-2-2008 08:14 PM http://forum3.cari.com.my/images/common/back.gif
Nenek dah angau betul dah nih ...nak tanye ..... what makes him so special to you ? :loveliness::loveliness:
Mmg tengah angau pun - and trying to get out of it.So far, slow progress.Well, I've survived worse breakdowns, so I will be alright.
I am not sure what makes him special to me.I just feel drawn to him. tp saya plak instinct xkuat ponnn....so, xleh agak die setia ke tak...:'(
dulu pernah ragui die sbb cemburu kot tp bile tau kisah sebenar, saya je yg pepandai tuduh die sedangkan die xcurang pon ngn saya..tp bila dh berjauhan ni kekadang rs die msh cm dulu, kekadang terpikir gak, xkan die xjatuh hati kat org lain....hmmmm,payah bercinta jarak jauh sebenarnya..kene banyak berkorban dan memendam rasa..kene banyak makan hati...:( Originally posted by ainis at 16-2-2008 11:41 AM http://forum3.cari.com.my/images/common/back.gif
senang je nak tau...dri ati naluri sendiri cz naluri pompan kuat....n kalu nak tau die curangker,senang gak nak tau cz biasenye,org lelaki(x semua ar) kalu dah curang dgn kite,die agak berbeza...
ati elizah sekarang mcm tu lah kat dia..pe perlu elizah buat Originally posted by puteri33cahaya at 17-2-2008 02:21 AM http://forum3.cari.com.my/images/common/back.gif
tp saya plak instinct xkuat ponnn....so, xleh agak die setia ke tak...:'(
dulu pernah ragui die sbb cemburu kot tp bile tau kisah sebenar, saya je yg pepandai tuduh die sedangkan die xcurang po ...
memang pun banyak makan ati... kalau si dia tak setia, tak guna ler kita nak berkawan ngan dia ekk... Originally posted by fiza1984 at 18-2-2008 05:42 PM http://forum3.cari.com.my/images/common/back.gif
kalau si dia tak setia, tak guna ler kita nak berkawan ngan dia ekk...
memang pun...tak guna