Kenapa aku tak nak pakai tudung..

znorm

Sebenarnya aku nk share artikel perbincangan pasal tudung nih.
Tajuk tu saje je bagi gempak hehe...
Sila lah bace


Why She Won't Wear Hijab!
A Discussion by A.Q. Alidost



A convesation for Muslim sisters:

"I'm so tired."

"Tired of what?"

"Of all these people judging me."

"Who judged you?"

"Like that woman, every time I sit with her, she tells me to wear hijab."

"Oh, hijab and music! The mother of all topics!"

"Yeah! I listen to music without hijab卙aha!"

"Maybe she was just giving you advice."

"I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can`t she mind her own business?"

"Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice."

"Keeping out of my business, that would be nice..."

"But it's her duty to encourage you do to good."

"Trust me. That was no encouragement. And what do you mean `good` ?"

"Well, wearing hijab, that would be a good thing to do."

"Says who?"

"It's in the Qur'an, isn't it?"

"Yes. She did quote me something."

"She said Surah Nur, and other places of the Qur'an."

"Yes, but it's not a big sin anyway. Helping people and praying is more important."

"True. But big things start with small things."

"That's a good point, but what you wear is not important. What's important is to
have a good healthy heart."

"What you wear is not important?"

"That's what I said."

"Then why do you spend an hour every morning fixing up?"

"What do you mean?"

"You spend money on cosmetics, not to mention all the time you spend
on fixing your hair and low-carb dieting."

"So?"

"So, your appearance IS important."

"No. I said wearing hijab is not an important thing in religion."

"If it's not an important thing in religion, why is it mentioned in the Holy
Qur'an?"

"You know I can't follow all that's in Qur'an."

"You mean God tells you something to do, you disobey and then it's OK?"

"Yes. God is forgiving."

"God is forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes."

"Says who?"

"Says the same book that tells you to cover."

"But I don't like hijab, it limits my freedom."

"But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics set you free?!

What`s your definition of freedom anyway?"

"Freedom is in doing whatever you like to do."

"No. Freedom is in doing the right thing, not in doing whatever we
wish to do."


"Look! I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people,
and so many who wearhijab and are bad people."

"So what? There are people who are nice to you but are alcoholic.
Should we all be alcoholics? You made a stupid point."

"I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. I'm OK the way I am without hijab."

"Then you are a secular fanatic. An extremist in disobeying God."

"You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would marry me?!"

"So all these people with hijab never get married?!"

"Okay! What if I get married and my husband doesn't like it? And wants me
to remove it?"

"What if your husband wants you to go out with him on a bank robbery?!"

"That's irrelevant, bank robbery is a crime."

"Disobeying your Creator is not a crime?"

"But then who would hire me?"

"A company that respects people for who they are."

"Not after 9-11"

"Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know about Hanan who just got
into med school?

And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore
a white hijab卽mmm

zusya

nice ......

zusya

sungguh menginsafkan...

pal8

nice...

seri_air

Yes, hijab/niqab liberates the woman. A hijabi woman is measured by her soul, her ability and not by what she looks like.

But it would be more prudent if hijab is worn accordingly, not blindly.

obelisk

wow nice...aku pon tak puas ati ramai yg dah mula mengata perempuan bertudung ni

selendangemas

best nyer baca......

pengimbas

bagus sekali!

mbhcsf

seorang pensyarah ni kata "sesungguhnya tudung itu datang dgn nilai" ..cantik kata kata tu .Bless him.

Oreng

Apa link asal topik nih...

baby_bro85

pakai tudung jgn kerana cantik tapi kerana takutkan allah... itu baru betul..

darkcatz

mata lelaki adalah paling sensitif... tudung ialah sebagai pelindungan daripada maksiat dan bahaya. saya percaya tudung mempunyai hikmahnya dan bukan sekadar kecantikan je..

rienafaiz

tudung ? eemmm itu hak masing2.. dtg dr hati dan ikhlas..
nni klu kejap pakai kejap buka cmna tu??
tetap dosa juga...

znorm

sbenarnya camni cik riena, xder diletakkan syarat pakai tudung
(tutup aurat) kene ikhlas.

tutup aurat adalah wajib kepada wanita muslim
dan bukan hak kita utk tidak menutup aurat.

diri kita sendiri kepunyaan Allah a.k.a hamba Allah.

kalo kita paham hakikat yg kita ni hamba, mesti kita x buat
byk alasan dlm memenuhi tuntutanNya.

JodoKast

baik dari tak pakai langsung.

sama contohnya kalau pakai perfume.

sekejap pakai perfume dan kekadang tak pakai perfume, adalah jauh lebih bagus dari insan yg tak penah pakai perfume dan bau hapak macam kambing utan.

dan adalah lebih bagus kalau sentiasa bleh pakai perfume tu, wangi memanjang, menyelesakan masyarakat sekeliling.

kan kan kan? perintah dan arahan Tuhan sangat jelas.

Kalau boss kat opis bagi arahan suruh buat sesuatu, berani ke kita cakap "No, aku tanak k? Yg penting aku keje kat sini dr hati yg ikhlas. Itu hak aku nak buat arahan tu ke tanak." Maunya kene terajang buang keje terus!

Tapi bayangkanlah, sanggup ke kita cakap 'No' pada perintah 'Boss' yang Maha Besar in the whole universe?

Allah Tuhan Yang Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang, tu sebab ramai yang cakap 'No' dengan selamba dan bersahaja. Tapi tunggu je la nanti di akhirat kelak.

Kalau selalu dok cakap "No, no no no", gamaknya memang kena terajang masuk neraka terus!

Insaflah selagi oksigen masih mampu disedut. Kang Tuhan stop supply oksigen kat kita sebab sesuka suki hati je cakap "No no no", baru padan muka.

Vvenus

Originally posted by rienafaiz at 3-4-2009 11:56
tudung ? eemmm itu hak masing2.. dtg dr hati dan ikhlas..
nni klu kejap pakai kejap buka cmna tu??
tetap dosa juga...

sorry, i disagree with this
ini bukan hak kita...ini hak Allah
'Dia' yang perintahkan kita, kaum wanita menutup aurat
sama jugak dgn 'Dia' yang perintahkan kita menunaikan solat
sebagai hamba Allah, kita wajib menunaikan hak-Nya
kalau tak tunaikan, kira kita dah terhutang hak 'Dia'...esok2 menjawab ler gamaknya  

just my 2 cents.

anti_israel

hak masing2 ????....

ape ko cakap ni????

hak untuk tidak melakukan perintah allah???

woi....taubat woi....

[ Last edited by  anti_israel at 3-4-2009 17:29 ]

makcikmengamok

article tu..prolly dier interview org kat barat kots..
aku dulu2 dengar right after 9-11...
org kat amerika especially those yg percaya sangat ngan media.....
ada yg attack org muslim...especially yg pakai tudong..
sapa2 yg pakai tudong..kene belasah..
sampai org yg biasa pakai tudong...buka tudong..
sebab dah darurat masa tu..

aku nyer cousin masa tu nak study abroad...
aku tak tau la kat negeri omputeh mana...dorg nak apply..
tapi dorg tak jadi apply kat tempat tu...becos..dorg require to take off tudong dorg..
sebab org kat situ attack org bertudong..

so dorg apply kat tempat lain..

Vvenus

Originally posted by makcikmengamok at 3-4-2009 21:35
article tu..prolly dier interview org kat barat kots..
aku dulu2 dengar right after 9-11...
org kat amerika especially those yg percaya sangat ngan media.....
ada yg attack org muslim...especi ...

right after 9/11 tuh, maybe la kot..aku tak tau
tapi kalau masa ni, waktu ini, memang tidak
aku ada 1st hand experience
walaupun aku bertudung, layanan Americans tidak berbeza
malah, diaorang lagi hormat....anyway, maybe sebab aku tak gi tempat bebukan kot
tapi kalau setakat kat mall, supermarket, beach, kawasan2 pelancongan..no problem
ramai Muslims kat sana...bila pakai tudung ni lagi senang utk we recognize each other
kadang2 tetiba aje datang Americans whether black or white yang menyapa bagi salam

tobby

sepender reti pakai, tudung pulak taknak pakai.