Suami Paksa Isteri Mengandung Lakukan Hubungan Seks Dengan Pekerja Bangla #94

CrowneGlory

Kesian baby dlm perut... Jgnla ikut perangai bapak mcm celaka tu...

hani2103

macamana nak lupuskan lelaki lahanat macam ni kt dunia?????

niceghost2005

clarizsa posted on 2-9-2014 03:13 PM
gila punya suami.... mmg ada yg fetish merapu cmni... cam dlm citer devious maids...

tapi unt ...

Dah 3 x had sex dgn Bangla, baru nak buat report???

Persatuan Isteri Taat pung tak suruh TAAT mcm nie.

niceghost2005

sayawifenikmie posted on 3-9-2014 12:01 PM
kamu wanita?
seorang  ibu  kepada anak spt  gambar di avatar?
mahu Allah uji kamu sedemikia ...

Apakah pabila tidak sependapat maka kita ingin berdoa agar dia di uji sedemikian ghopa??

GhostWalking

Kena tengok pelbagai sudut.Adakah dia surirumah yang totally dependent emotionally and financially pada suami?Was she ever abused emotionally,physically or verbally by the husband?Apa yang buat dia rasa takut dengan suami dia?Ada unsur ugutan kah?Ugutan berbentuk macamana?Adakah dalam bentuk penceraian?atau penarikan balik nafkah?Kadang-kadang kita akan tanya sesuatu in a bigger picture.Ini yang saya jumpa untuk di kongsikan:

The one question our culture often asks of victims/survivors of domestic abuse is: “Why do/did you stay in an abusive relationship?” or “Why doesn’t she just leave?”  Sometimes the question is meant as an honest inquiry.  However, often it is spoken with an undercurrent of hostility or disbelief (i.e. “It couldn’t have been that bad” or “You must have liked it” or “If you wanted to leave, you would have.”), sending a message that women who stay in abusive relationships are somehow to blame for their abuse.
Our culture also sends equally powerful messages that women are expected to fill roles in their relationships that keep them dependent on their partners.  This combination of messages sets women up to feel ashamed, isolated and stuck.  Some may feel that they have no real choices.
The following list is a composite of views from women in DAP Women’s Groups over the past several years.  They invited us into their lives and helped us answer the question: What keeps some women in abusive relationships?
Note: Not all of these reasons are found in each case.  A combination of some of them can often be found and can be compelling enough to keep a woman in the relationship.

A woman may fear her partner’s actions if she leaves.

• My partner said he will hunt me down and kill me.
• My partner will kidnap the children and disappear.
• My partner will take my passport and immigration papers.
• My partner will spread horrible rumors about me.
• She will “out” me at work or to my family.
• My partner will have me deported or report me to the INS.
• My partner will stop the processing of my Green Card.
  

The effects of abuse may make it difficult to leave.

• I’m nothing. I don’t deserve better.
• I feel paralyzed.
• I can’t face making decisions anymore.
• I was brainwashed to believe that I couldn’t cope without my partner.
• I am so used to life being this way.
• I’m more comfortable with what I know, than the unknown out in the world.
  

A woman may have concerns about her children.

• My children will blame me and resent me.
• The kids need a father.
• She will tell my ex-spouse or authorities that I am a lesbian so they will take the kids.
• Children need a “real family”.
• My partner will steal the children.
• My partner will kill the children.
• My partner will turn the children against me.
• She is the biological mother; I have no legal rights.
  

A partner’s attempts to isolate a woman may make it difficult for her to leave or get help.

• My partner doesn’t let me out of the house.
• I have no friends to call for help anymore.
• My partner doesn’t let me take English classes so I can’t communicate with anyone.
• If I ever tell anyone about this, my partner will kill me.
• My sister said I couldn’t come and stay with her anymore, after the last time…
• My partner said he or she would teach my friend a lesson if I go over there again.
• My partner hides my wheelchair so I cannot leave the house.
  

A woman’s personal history may have shaped her attitude toward abuse in relationships.

• My father beat my mom – it just goes with being in a relationship.
• Getting hit isn’t the worst thing that can happen in a family – I know of worse things.
• I have seen a lot of violence in my country so violence has become normal for me.
• My parents never gave up on one another.
  

A woman may be deeply attached to her partner and hope for change.

• I believe my partner when he or she says that it will never happen again.
• My partner promised to go to therapy.
• I cherish the sex and intimacy.
• My partner is really loving towards me most of the time.
• My marriage vows.
• My religion.
• I love her or him.
  

Some women are taught that it is their job to maintain the relationship and support their partners, so they may feel guilty about leaving or feel they have “failed.”

• I will ruin his or her life if I leave.
• My partner will have nowhere to go.
• My partner will lose her or his job if I report this.
• My partner tells me the system does not support non-citizens.
• My partner will start drinking again.
• I will disappoint my family.  I can’t admit my relationship is a failure.
• I am afraid the deaf community will reject me.
• I have to take care of him or her.
• She or he wouldn’t hurt me if I were better at keeping up the house.
  

Women may be economically dependent on their partners or their partners may be economically dependent on them.

• My partner has all the money.
• I’ve never had a good job.  How would I take care of my kids alone?
• I have no work experience in this country.
• It’s better to be beaten up at home than to be out on the streets.
• My partner won’t let me send any money overseas.
• My disability does not enable me to work.
• I’d rather die than be on welfare.
• My partner forces me to work and then takes all my money.
• My partner charges up all my credit cards.
• My partner can’t work – he depends on me to support him.
  

Our culture sends the message that a woman’s value depends on her being in a relationship.  Women without partners tend to be devalued.

• My partner keeps me together.  I’ll fall apart if I leave.
• I have to have a man by my side.
• I would be disgraced in my community and bring shame to my family.
• People will call me a whore, a whore, or sleazy.
• I’ll be an old maid.
• I’m afraid to be on my own.
  

Read here: http://www.domesticabuseproject.com/get-educated/compelling-reasons-women-stay/


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joyahglam

hazab nya perangai suami yang mcm ni..
kesian pada mangsa

tongkatwaran75

anak dlm perut, warga mane punye?

GhostWalking

tongkatwaran75 posted on 3-9-2014 05:39 AM
anak dlm perut, warga mane punye?

Abam tongkattttt

shernazz

Trauma beb..
Banyak tukang komen yang salahkan pompuan ni...
Lelaki patut jadi pelindung..bukannya aniaya isteri..
Walaulpon brapa kali sekalipon.
Lelaki tu xsepatutnya buat begitu

sambaldurian

Punya la bnyk video biru ko leh dpt dr internet, bini ko sendiri suh jd pelakon porn. Bangang nye manusia itu :@

sayawifenikmie

idadzira posted on 3-9-2014 12:03 PM
saya wanita yg boleh berfikir.

bukan wanita yang bodoh boleh didera lelaki sampai mcm tu.

satu nasihat saya .. jangan cakap takbur dan riak ...

itu ujian dia ... ujian kita? ujian kamu?

sayawifenikmie

niceghost2005 posted on 3-9-2014 12:35 PM
Apakah pabila tidak sependapat maka kita ingin berdoa agar dia di uji sedemikian ghopa??

... kat celah mana saya mendoakan dia?

Simunggu

laju thread ini tak lama lagi cecah 90pgs..bagi acong moderator....hahaha

niceghost2005

sayawifenikmie posted on 3-9-2014 01:52 PM
... kat celah mana saya mendoakan dia?

Cuba baca balik posting posting dgn dia.......

Ada unsur unsur doa n ugutan.

DOA tidak semestinya mengangkat tangan ke langit and mulut kumut kamit.
Adakah kita hendak suruh oghang diam dgn posting tersebut?

Itu pendapat dia.
Dan kita doakan dan berharap agar dia dan kita mendapat suami/isteri yg berTAQWA.

Tutup kes

nobito

Aku memang yakin laki dia ni Melayu..pressure keje..so sex life dia x da quality untuk perform atas katil..sperm dia pon xda quality.

X pon mungkin lelaki Melayu dia ni ketagih blue film black men...dia pulak fefeelling Kokosen.

Yg pasti nak anak tu cuma alasan je untuk menghalalkan kegiatan cuckold dia.

mizahanan

siannya perempuan itu. Lakinya lahanat!

nobito

joyahglam posted on 3-9-2014 01:38 PM
hazab nya perangai suami yang mcm ni..
kesian pada mangsa

Aku pasti pompuan Melayu tu pon kepuasan.

Etah2 dia yg membalun bangla tu sampai 3 kali..lepastu dia mungkin taubat lepas tengoj channel astro oasis atau tv al hijrah..baru nak rreport polis konon..padahal dan puas sampai nk terberanak for the first time.

Pompuan Melayu camni dia akan repeat perbuatan dia ke atas mayanmar vietnam nepal dan pakistan.

joyahglam

nobito posted on 3-9-2014 02:08 PM
Aku pasti pompuan Melayu tu pon kepuasan.

Etah2 dia yg membalun bangla tu sampai 3 kali..lepast ...

okay ler dia nak bertaubat.
siapa tak pernah buat salah kan..

rospinki

byk komen tread ni..itu petanda sex adalah satu kegilaan smua

idadzira

sayawifenikmie posted on 3-9-2014 01:47 PM
satu nasihat saya .. jangan cakap takbur dan riak ...

itu ujian dia ... ujian kita? ujian  ...

yg ko emo sangat ni kenapa? that my opinion. kita pun x tahu cerita sebenarnya.

i really pray it never happen to me, tapi kalau terjadi kepada aku INSYALLAH, aku lebih rela mati, hilang laki dari buat benda haram cam tu.