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asheput

Saya tak tau nak letak tittle mcm mana.
My daughter baru 16bln, yes mmg awal lg utk pikirkan hal ni. Kalau ada yg mampu, diorg anta anak ke playgroup yg berbayar. Tp my town ni mana ada benda mcm tu for toddlers. Kalau kat oversea, biasa ada mak2 pakat dgn kawan2 or jiran2 utk create a playgroup for anak2 mereka secara bergilir-gilir.

Masalah saya, next door neighbour punya 4yr old boy ni suka sangat nak berkawan. Kekadang bole la saya allow mereka berkawan dlm kawasan. Budak tu dalm pagar dia, my bbb dlm porch kami. Tapi this boy is demanding attention. Dia slalu panggil my daughter, my baby excited la siap tarik tangan kita, gegas cari kasut. Tp budak ni ajak tak kira time..pantang nampak pintu terbukak. Yg saya tak suka tu, that boy main2  lepas tu belah. Sian my daughter terjerit2 nangis kawan tinggalkan dia. Dah satu kerja nak pujuk. Geram sangat. DAh tu bile diorg main, kita ni terpaksa tunggu kat luar sbb kena jagalah ..baby lagi anak aku tu. Tapi that boy lak nak ajak kita borak2 dgn dia lak. Malas rasa. FYI this boy suka attention n suka borak especially dgn org tua. Kalau kat dapur siap panggil akak belakang tu utk borak.

There磗 another issue yg aku tak kenan tp probably another topic.. tak taulah. So sekarang ni saya slalu tutup pintu and then ajak my bb melukis etc utk entertain dia. Then saya really limitkan bile my baby bole keluar. Is it wrong? What other parents think? Saya rasa selagi belum 3thn mmg tak sesuai main kat luar even kat porch. Pls help

my-alja

apa isu sebenarnya?...tak suka anak main dgn boy tu ke?

dr segi umur pun dah memang jauh, mungkin susah gak mereka nak main bersama...esp sebab berlainan jantina, kalo girl-girl mudah sket, boleh main masak

tak suka, takyah kawan....

i pun tak paham... whats the issue again? you tak suka your bub main outside with the boy is it?

if that is the case, you stay indoors je la. petang baru keluar. takkan nak stay indoors je kot.... can you do that? tak rimas ke?

my sons mmg i bring them for playgroup. playgroup i age range dia from newborn - 4yrs old. so far so good..... thats one of the few times where my sons do not play with each other..... coz they will be busy playing with budak lain

macademia

pada mac, budak 4 tahun tu pun kecik lagi, so actions dia unpredictable.... time boring dia cari anak u, time dia dah boring main dgn baby dia blah aje la....

Or maybe bila u agak2 dia nak blah, u standby la bawak anak u masuk, so that anak u tak terkonteng kena tinggal and in the end dia nangis kan?

i rasa u lebihkan la activity anak u, both indoors and out door.... takde ke girls kat situ?

MAsa anak mac 16 months, outdoor activity, kalau tak pergi park, mac bawak dia jalan2 evening walk kat kawasan perumahan.....

cik_dee_na

erm, tak paham apa yg diconcernkan sgt kat sini
concern sebab tamau kasik kawan ngan your baby ke
or concern sebab tamau pujuk your baby bila the neighbour's kid blah begitu je
or concern sebab malas nak layan budak tu berborak (you and the neighbour's kid)
or concern sebab nak limitkan time anak keluar

i guess ni anak pertama you
and you tak tau lagi cemana anak you nanti at the age of four
kalau dia takde kawan (like the neighbour's kid) sure she also akan ajak orang borak2 ngan dia
kids love to mingle
tak kira la orang tua ke apa
just imagine kalau orang pun malas nak layan anak you when she reaches the age

my daughter is about your baby's age
she's 19 months
cik dee tak de limit2 keluar of weather and health permits
kalau hari cantik, tak hujan, then tak de bebudak yg sakit, cik dee biar je
but under supervision la

tina^^

ERK, ku pon kureng paham aper problem masalahnyer nie...tp aku nak jawab soklan yg last sentence tue

Saya rasa selagi belum 3thn mmg tak sesuai main kat luar even kat porch. Pls help

my baby pon around urs. he's 18 mths now. tpnyer, i never restrict him kalau nak memain kat luar, provided the weather is good, health condition ok, and others sumer ok.

on weekend, me salu pasangkan pool dkt porch anak kasik dier memain air sdirik2. letaklah segala mcm haiwan dlm tue, utk dier memain sama. sumtimes, i called up my frenz and ajak derang bawak baby derang utk join sekali. tp tak ramai. 2-3 baby jek cukop.

pehtu, pepetang tue, kasik jek dier main kat luar rumah (dlm pagar). smalam dier lari2 kejar anak kucing kots (masa babah sebok gardening), lepas tue dier dtg to me, dier tunjuk lutut dier luke. dier cakap "akit, akit" (sakit), pehtu me tepok2 lutut dier me cakap, ok dah baik dah. then, dier sambung lari balik.......

abt playing dgn anak jiran, anak neighbour paling kecit pon yg dah skolah tadika. mcm tak seswai jek nak main ngn my baby...tp my baby kalau tgk derang main bola ker beskal, mcm org besar nak join...tp me tak kasik la...kasik tgk ajek....dari segi umur tak seswai, pehtu safety lagik, neither anak jiran nor my boy tahu pasal safety....ish, wat bahaya ajek...takperla, main ajek dlm porch (for time being)...tue lagik selamat.

macademia

maybe kawasan rumah u tak sesuai utk bermain kut, itu yg u tak kasi dia main kat porch?

ananur

at this age mmg budak suka nk berkawan
agaknya baby pun boring asyik dok dlm rumah je.. balik2 main dgn mak
that's why dia sedih sgt bila 'kawan' dia tu tinggalkan dia.. i rasa laa
maybe you can invite anak kawan2 ke sesapa yg u trust enough to play with your child, tak kisah la main kat dlm rumah ke, luar ke as long as they can play together n you can be there to supervise them shud be okay

paulinevoon

Originally posted by asheput at 24-8-2007 02:58 PM
Saya tak tau nak letak tittle mcm mana.
My daughter baru 16bln, yes mmg awal lg utk pikirkan hal ni. Kalau ada yg mampu, diorg anta anak ke playgroup yg berbayar. Tp my town ni mana ada benda m ...

my son's age same as your baby's age and during weekedays i sent him to babysitter's place while i had to work.. kat sana ramai kawan.. babies at this age tak terkecuali my son mmg suka berkawan.. he loves to mingle esp with kids/babies.. adult pun dia tegur..

u can either send your baby to nursery or entertain her yourself.. byk aktiviti kita boleh buat kat dalam rumah or luar rumah..

pasal budak next door the choice is yours.. you can always ckp kat his parents/penjaga about his behavior yg suka panggil anak u tak kira masa tu..