♠ the world's greatest lie ♠

dutchy

Originally posted by sinalegna at 8-10-2007 12:40 AM
World greatest lie is HOPE.. we keep on hoping for the impossible, yet we stumble upon our own failure while trying to reach what we've hoped for. We also fantasized and dreamt of achieving what  ...

I like to see and appreciate failure as a sign that there is hope for something better
the road to a good life is seldom smooth sailing..what you have to do in such a situation is to analyse the -ve of the
results and try to make a better choice later on...that is the only thing left for u to do

sinalegna

honestly, i think humans need hope like a dope... it's a lie and when we live in a lie, it'll be part of us, we couldn't do without it cos' otherwise we'd end our life right after... this is a lie we tell ourselves everyday and when we got used to it, it'll automatically turn into self-confidence

wei_loon5063

aiyaa Agul, it is just a joke laa.. dont take it too seriously.....

ask the experts in RSF? ahahaa.... its war there

wei_loon5063

Originally posted by dutchy at 25-9-2007 11:20 AM
**Being a Muslim where we are taught that almost everything that happens is qada and qadar

do you tends to agree with the fact that our lifes is indeed determined by sheer Faith ....or is a healthy dosage of self empowerment  is needed to get where we want in life??...

I think for christians, the biggest lie is that Jesus is a man, not god as portrayed in Da vinci code

abemus

if u believe in God, supposedly u believe in fate.

Agul

I like Sarah Brightman's song "The War Is Over"... from "harem" albums.


I think I am going to play pebble right now...

Raksaksa

Its all about choices and decisions. We have to make decisions. There are no wrong decisions only bad ones and whatever it is we have to decide.  We make decisions based on what we think is best for us at that time. Other people won't decide for you unless you let them to. Suggestions might be made but you have to make the call. It might be mapped out, but we choose what we want our life to be. In a map, to reach a destination there are a lot of routes you can take. So you choose your own route which you think is the best. So choose your own destiny.
Once you've made the decision, make the effort and pray. Hope for the best but always prepare for the worst. If you fail, learn from the mistakes...try and try again.

We can choose to sit down and do nothing, don't eat anything and die on the chair or we can get up, cook something and then enjoy the meal. So which one do you choose? It could be as simple as that.

hunt_fear

As a muslim, kita kena ingat nasib sendiri bergantung pada diri sendiri.
Apabila berlaku sesuatu yang buruk bukan perlu salahkan qada' dan qadar tapi redha dengan qada' dan qadar supaya kita bersyukur dengan segala ketentuan yang berlaku.

dutchy

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 10-10-2007 01:07 PM


I think for christians, the biggest lie is that Jesus is a man, not god as portrayed in Da vinci code

is it such a lie? does it change your faith for what its worth, just because of what
is still a mystery?

does it change your destiny, when what you think to be the truth all this while...turns out to be hoaxed?

sinalegna

do you like your job?
do love your partner?
were been you faithful?
do you say thing you don't mean?
would you be sincere if you're complimenting someone else?
did you do things you hated?
did you state your opinion honestly?
how would you face yourself if you had done something you don't like if others are doing it to you?

do you lie to yourself? yes we are...  we lie everyday, even if you don't like to be lied to...

dutchy

so much Q...only u can answer it...

sinalegna...do you believe in what people call ~ a little white lie?

sinalegna

a little white lie everyday would eventually hurt you a lifetime... but we all do, because that's what we all are.

dutchy

do care to explain...what is that's what we all are

some people says that a little white lie doesn't hurt...its a way of protecting people
from the real truth of the matter....do you agree...that a lie can protect others?

aren't we being a hypo in the sense of the word?

sinalegna

technically, we are all hypo...
but we (assuming that other people is just the same as us) lie according to the situation that we faced.
we lie to make someone happy,
we lie to avoid conflict...
but, thats a lie in a good way (for a good cause)... sadly not all of us lie for the same purpose.

a lie would still be a lie, even if you done it for the sake of others... just don't do it often because words can be taken back, feelings don't.

p/s: why are you missing your kak long? i'm a first child & i miss my baby sister. your siggy reminds me of her....

[ Last edited by  sinalegna at 27-10-2007 01:14 AM ]

dutchy

you are very attentive...tQ
she is my kak long kt porem neh..she is no longer here with me..and it makes
me feel so sad w/o her ....missing her bunches

sinalegna

she'll come back... people always does.

ajinomotonosuga

man creates his destiny
but his mind creates irony

dutchy

irony in what sense? defies his own destiny?