Issue - Terlalu Ingin Kurus - Anorexia (especially Young Girls)-

lonely_surina

dalam cenel 77 hari khamis kalo tak silap ade dokumentari pasal geng ana ni

tak paham aku dgn org2 anorexia ni... dorang ni masalah takde keyakinan diri ke hapa? dorang tak rasa yg dorang dah cukup kurus ke walaupun diletakkan cermin besar depan dorang?

agaknya kalau lempang muka dorang beberapa kali boleh tolong menyedarkan dorang tak?

lonely_surina

Originally posted by gabanzack at 7-7-2007 03:31 PM
tak paham aku dgn org2 anorexia ni... dorang ni masalah takde keyakinan diri ke hapa? dorang tak rasa yg dorang dah cukup kurus ke walaupun diletakkan cermin besar depan dorang?

agaknya kalau  ...

apa plak takde keyakinan diri nya... mereka la antara yg mempunyai keyakinan diri yg tinggi.. ingat senang ke nak kawal nafsu makan.... makan tu best tau tp sebab nak kurus tahan jugak selera makan tu...

lonely_surina

bang gaban, yg ana kronik mmg la tak lawa... nampak tulang temulang bagai

lonely_surina

lonely_surina

lonely_surina

ini antara geng2 ana yg lawa...



mod kalo over sangat gambo ni edit la

lonely_surina

dexa

Originally posted by gabanzack at 7-7-2007 03:31 PM
tak paham aku dgn org2 anorexia ni... dorang ni masalah takde keyakinan diri ke hapa? dorang tak rasa yg dorang dah cukup kurus ke walaupun diletakkan cermin besar depan dorang?

agaknya kalau  ...

very true --

these people has no self esteem and self confidence -
mereka ada disease yang psychologically can harm them
even to succumb to death
-- the obvious example - karen carpenter from the carpenters -

kajian mengatakan - banyak sebab2 tu -
one of them - masa kecil  kena abused -
or kena raped .....that cud be -

and as well - peer pressures  yang melampau tahap gaban (pinjam you ye)
dan kerana nak FIT IN --

biasanya mereka ni bukannya tak educated -  sekolah tinggi
bijak laksana - tapi  kerana punya self esteem yang rendah
selalu merasa mereka tidak cantik - terlalu gomok  dan takut
dengan makanan -  bukan macam takut macam takut hantu -
tapi  takut nak makan masa dengan orang ramai --
bila orang kita  ohhhhh kurusnya zack ni -
zack akan kata - mana ada.....  or just diam aje - dan tak akan
percaya dengan kata2 orang lain --

and then bila orang tak ada kat dapur -
akan ambil semua makanan kat sana -- sort of macam curi2 makan -
tapi akan melahap macam tak pernah jumpa makanan -

and then akan rasa guilty
during the binge tu -- depa tak enjoy pun makanan tu
sebab nak puaskan nafsu lapaq  tu aje....

then after finished binge -- depa akan jolok jolokkan kat
anak tekak tu supaya keluar kan balik apa yang depa makan
or  depa akan guna laxatives  so  all will come out --

it is such a trauma disease and really really need help professionally --
and very dangerous -

lonely_surina

bulimia mmg laa.. makan banyak2 pastu muntah... anorexia tahan dari makan

Originally posted by lonely_surina at 7-7-2007 03:40 PM
ini antara geng2 ana yg lawa...

http://www.anorexicweb.com/CameraAdds/Resources/ana125.jpg

mod kalo over sangat gambo ni edit la

senang sape dpt bini camni.... cantik pun cantik... tak susah susah nak bagi makan

lonely_surina

mmg la untung... beras 5kg pun setahun  tak abis.. takyah bawak g dinner2 bagai.. takyah nak beli makanan itu ini

togeh

to be honest, i pun aneroxic n bulimia... i eat only 8pcs biscuits and milo every day... on sunday usually i makan kat luar (orang belanja)makan banyak sikit la..., so lepas makan i akan ke toilet throw out balik everything yg i makan...

perasaan orang mcm aku ni.... bila makanan ada dalam perut, rasa guilty sgt2... rasa gemuk sangat2... rasa buncit je...thats why i throw out.

dulu every morning i akan skipping 1000 times and exercise at midnight. now dah tak buat dah. i just buat yoga, every 2 days...

kalau lapa, biasanya minum banyak air.. n makanan emergency kalau dah tak tahan sgt2 (if dehidration or nak pengsan), is green apple.

now i tgh try nak kurangkan disorder ni, even though i still feel really guilty kalau makan nasi, i try makan jugak sekali seminggu (tapi kadang2 i throw out jgk)
but, now i dah makan benda2 lain selain biskut, macam sayur...ikan.. tp kuantiti yang sikit, sbb kalau makan banyak sikit mesti rasa nak throw out jgk...

dexa

in light of your confession -
i would like to urge you to seek a counsellor
advise -
stuff like bulimic is not something to take lightly
and especially when you realized u are one of
the stats - please  i  beg you to go see a doctor
to get some help -
it is not something that u choose oh  u will eat a bit
more than biscuits etc -- it is more to it than select
what kind of dinner you had -

i hope you are gonna act  positive about it
and see a doctor about your disease -
it is pertinent to seek help now  than postpone it

may force be with ya --

dexa

Originally posted by lonely_surina at 7-7-2007 06:07 PM
mmg la untung... beras 5kg pun setahun  tak abis.. takyah bawak g dinner2 bagai.. takyah nak beli makanan itu ini

salam -
please dun treat this funny stuff and think
that this is something we can joke about -

it is very serious disease and whilst it is okay to make it light
but to say something so insensitive such as  
no need to beli makanan etc etc  is clearly out of touch -

please understand when i opened this topic for discussion
it is not to make fun of the people who have this disease
rather to understand and to see what help even in writing
can we do about it --

and more, it is also to educate us about this disease -

appreciate if forum members can be a bit sensitive about
this issue -

thanks -

[ Last edited by  dexa at 7-7-2007 08:29 PM ]

dexa

a great and interesting article for
us to ponder about wanna be skinny -

let's see --

--------------------------------------------------------------


Starving to be skinny
London Log by CHOI TUCK WO

Many young British schoolgirls are going to extremes to modify their appearance.

APPEARANCE means a lot to teenage girls. But their efforts to look good may leave them not feeling good, particularly if they are skipping breakfast and lunch to look like skinny models and celebrities.  

Such is the case with British schoolgirls. Many are risking their health as they routinely forego daily meals in their efforts to achieve the supermodel size.

Startling facts were recently revealed by the government抯 nationwide survey of the lifestyles of 70,000 schoolgirls aged between 10 and 15.

Some 40% of 14- and 15-year-old girls either have nothing or just a drink for breakfast daily.

Many also go without lunch. Over half of those polled believe they need to slim down even though only 12% were overweight.

The girls

dexa

i love this article -- and would love to share with forum members ---
this subject is quite pertinent to some and i hope this article can
provide some answers and as well educate us about the seriousness
of anorexia --



---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Your Health: The skinny on anorexia
By : FOONG PUI HING


In a food haven like Malaysia, where the battle of the bulge is fought, sufferers of anorexia nervosa are caught in a war of their own

The phrase 慔ave you eaten?

peace

Originally posted by togeh at 7-7-2007 07:19 PM
to be honest, i pun aneroxic n bulimia... i eat only 8pcs biscuits and milo every day... on sunday usually i makan kat luar (orang belanja)makan banyak sikit la..., so lepas makan i akan ke toile ...

kagum aku dengan kau... sanggup makan 8 kepin biskut je.....

aku pelik dengan orang - orang yang berbadan gemuk.... mereka sanggup makan 24 JAM walaupun tahu diri tu dah gemuk...

lonely_surina

Originally posted by peace at 28-10-2007 08:53 AM


kagum aku dengan kau... sanggup makan 8 kepin biskut je.....

aku pelik dengan orang - orang yang berbadan gemuk.... mereka sanggup makan 24 JAM walaupun tahu diri tu dah gemuk...

thinner is winner