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Katy Perry And Orlando Bloom's Unequal Body Language Says A Lot About Their Upcoming Marriage
Remember, they were on-again, off-again for years.

BY ARYELLE SICLAIT NOV 8, 2019
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Before Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom tie the knot in December, it’s worth getting an expert take on how solid they really are as a couple. After all, they’ve broken up twice since they first started dating in 2016, and if other on-again, off-again celeb couples are any proof, that’s usually not a good sign.

For this couple, it all started at an afterparty where Orlando—already divorced from ex-wife Miranda Kerr—was being mega handsy with Katy, who’d been divorced from Russell Brand for four years. Before the night was over, the pair even had a dance-off, according to Us Weekly, where “Katy literally dropped to the floor and was waving her booty around, beckoning Orlando.” If that’s not a way to peacock (yes, I'm making a ref to her 2010 song), then I don’t know what is.

After that, the two were going strong for a bit—they were spotted canoodling in Hawaii, at Coachella, Cannes, and in the Mediterranean, where those now-legendary paddle-boarding photos were snapped. You know, the ones where Orlando was letting it all hang out? Yup, those.

Following a short break in November 2016, the two got back together and were spotted looking more than friendly in Tokyo. Then, after breaking up again in March 2017, they patched things up for a second time. A little more than a year later, in February 2019, Orlando proposed to Katy in a helicopter.

Who knows? Maybe after spending time apart, Katy and Orlando now have the makings for a lasting relationship. But the only way to know for sure is by bringing in Terri Orbuch, PhD, author of 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great and professor at Oakland University in Michigan, to analyze the couple's body language. Here's what she had to say:

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Orlando's been crazy about Katy from the beginning...
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In this photo snapped the first night the couple was ever spotted together, "Orlando pressed his body smack against Katy's, and he's looking straight at her and only her," says Orbuch.

It's unclear whether this was captured before or after the dance-off, but what is clear, says Orbuch, is how into his now-fiancée Orlando was from the jump. His closing the gap between their bodies is a sign that he instantly felt a connection between them.

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...But he doesn't want everyone to be in on their relationship.
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While Katy's happy and proud to be with Orlando (peep the way her feet are turned toward Orlando, which means she's thinking about him, and how leaning against him while smiling at the camera), Orlando's in a slightly different camp.

He's happy to be with Katy, Orbuch assures, but he's not okay with making their relationship too public. The evidence? His body and head angled toward Katy show that he's all about her, but his lean away from the camera and major side-eye tells Orbuch—paddle-boarding photos aside—he wants to keep things on the DL.


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They'll always be drawn to each other.
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While hairstyles aren't technically body language, Orbuch can't help but notice the way Katy and Orlando's looks are different in each photo. Their constant makeovers tell Orbuch that despite their individual growth, Katy and Orlando will always make their way back to each other.

In this moment, specifically, snapped four months before Orlando proposed, Orbuch is convinced the couple was going strong. "Orlando isn't Mr. PDA," but their heads close together and their matching stances prove they've got similar mindsets and a ton in common.

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Katy's all about Orlando, and that's not going to change.
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Once again, these two are pressed up against each other, which means they're bonded at the hip.

Of course, Orbuch would prefer if Orlando's eyes were closed (that's obvs more genuine when you're kissing someone), but that only goes to show how hesitant he is about giving the public an inside look into their relationship. But Orbuch loves how he pulls Katy in closer to him (as if getting closer was possible) and how Katy—closed eyes and all—is "getting into the kiss both physically and mentally." (She could have let that hand on her side drop onto his body instead, but hey, it was a red-carpet premiere...)

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Katy doesn't take Orlando's commitment for granted.
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Orlando captioned this IG photo taken at a wedding: "Wonderful weekend of being love and celebrating love, congrats to a beautiful union." Orbuch knows this mushiness is rare for Orlando, so she was sure to squeeze every possible detail out of it:

"He has his arm around Katy—fully encircling her," Orbuch says. By doing this, Orlando is communicating to Katy that he can take care of her if and when she needs him to. And based on the way Katy's looking straight at him, Orbuch knows she trusts him fully. They're both completely present in this moment—they don't want to miss out on any more time they can spend together. Good thing they're getting married then, amirite?

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Israel says envoy's 'GOOD LUCK' to Myanmar for genocide case was a mistake

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JERUSALEM (Reuters) - The Israeli ambassador was mistaken to have sent a "GOOD LUCK" message to Myanmar ahead of World Court hearings on accusations the state committed genocide against Rohingya Muslims, Israel's foreign ministry said on Thursday.

Israel's Haaretz newspaper reported that the ambassador to Myanmar wished authorities good luck in tweets that have since been deleted ahead of the hearings next month at the International Court of Justice (ICJ) in The Hague.

"The ambassador’s tweet was a mistake and was immediately amended," the foreign ministry said in a statement.

"Israel forthrightly condemns the atrocities perpetrated against the Rohingya in the Rakhine region. Israel voted, a week ago, in favour of a U.S. resolution condemning the atrocities."

More than 730,000 Rohingya Muslims have fled to neighbouring Bangladesh since a 2017 crackdown by Myanmar's military, which U.N. investigators say was carried out with "genocidal intent". Buddhist majority Myanmar denies accusations of genocide.

Myanmar's de facto leader, State Counsellor Aung San Suu Kyi, will lead a delegation to defend against accusations brought at the ICJ by Gambia, which has the backing of the Organisation of Islamic Cooperation.

Ronen Gilor, Israel's ambassador to Myanmar, had tweeted "Encouragement for a good verdict and good luck!" in one post, Haaretz reported with a screengrab of the since deleted tweet.

Another tweet said: "State Counsellor going to respond for Myanmar in the ICJ! GOOD LUCK!"

Western countries have widely condemned Myanmar's actions in Rakhine state while China has offered support for what it terms Myanmar's efforts to preserve domestic stability.

(Reporting by Dan Williams; Writing by Matthew Tostevin; editing by Raju Gopalakrishnan)

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Fwd- Russia's Tanzilia Bisembeyeva, who was listed as the world's oldest living person in Russia's 2016 book of world records, has died at the age of 123.

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Berketurunan Kazakh dan beragama Islam, Bisembeyeva merupakan anak sulung daripada lapan beradik, dan berkahwin selepas revolusi sewaktu bekerja sebagai buruh pertanian. Suami pertamanya hilang sewaktu Perang Dunia Kedua. Beliau berkahwin baru dan dikurniakan anak pertamanya pada usia 53 tahun dan kemudian melahirkan lagi 2 anak lelaki, mendapat 10 orang cucu, 25 orang cicit dan dua orang piut.

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Australia's indigenous people have a solution for the country's bushfires. And it's been around for 50,000 years

By Leah Asmelash, CNN

Updated 2346 GMT (0746 HKT) January 12, 2020

Haze from the bushfires is seen over Sydney's Bondi Beach on December 10, 2019.

(CNN)The fires in Australia have been burning for months, consuming nearly 18 million acres of land, causing thousands to evacuate and killing potentially millions of animals.

They're showing minimal signs of slowing down. The Australian state of New South Wales, where both Sydney and Canberra are located, declared a state of emergency this week, as worsening weather conditions could lead to even greater fire danger.
But a 50,000-year-old solution could exist: Aboriginal burning practices.


Australia's deadly wildfires are showing no signs of stopping. Here's what you need to know





Here's how it works.
Aboriginal people had a deep knowledge of the land, said historian Bill Gammage, an emeritus professor at Australian National University who studies Australian and Aboriginal history. They can feel the grass and know if it would burn well; they knew what types of fires to burn for what types of land, how long to burn, and how frequently.
"Skills like that, they have but we don't know," Gammage said.
Aboriginal techniques are based in part on fire prevention: ridding the land of fuel, like debris, scrub, undergrowth and certain grasses. The fuel alights easily, which allows for more intense flames that are harder to fight.
The Aboriginal people would set small-scale fires that weren't too intense and clear the land of the extra debris. The smaller intensity fires would lessen the impact on the insects and animals occupying the land, too, as well as protect the trees and the canopy.
A firefighter manages a controlled burn near Tomerong, Australia, set in an effort to contain a larger fire nearby.




And though current fire fighters on the ground still use some fuel control and hazard reduction techniques, Gammage said it's not enough.
"Some of it is being done, but not skillfully enough," he said. "We don't really take into account plants and animals that might be endangered by fire. And secondly, we don't really know what's the best time of year, how much burn, how to break up a fire front."
It's not like they know nothing, Gammage said, especially the firefighters on the ground. But he said it's not enough to make Australia safe.


Why Aboriginal techniques are so difficult to implement
Setting smaller, low-intensity fires to prevent larger bushfires may sound like common sense. In practice, though, it's really hard.
It comes down to knowledge, Gammage said. When do you a start a fire? What time of the year? What time of day? How long you want it to burn? What plants are there? What's the weather like — is there a drought like now?
"You have to have a lot of local skill," Gammage said.
A firefighters backs away from the flames after lighting a controlled burn near Tomerong, Australia.




He cited an example. In Australia, fires that are too hot actually allows the flammable undergrowth to germinate more. When early Europeans tried to copy Aboriginal techniques by lighting fires, they made the fires too hot, and got even more of the flammable scrub. So, they tried again. And again.
"Even though people can see the Aborigines doing the fire control, and could see the benefits, they couldn't copy it," he said.
Now, the juxtaposition is clear.
"Where the Aboriginal people are in charge, they're not having big fires," Gammage said. "In the south, where white people are in charge, we are having the problems."

As climate change worsens, so will the fires
The bushfires in Australia are never going to go away but will get worse. That's according to Justin Leonard, a researcher dedicated to understanding bushfires and land management. Bushfires are ignited both naturally and by humans, but Leonard called them "inevitable."
Climate change only worsens the conditions for fires, he said. Droughts and hotter weather only make for more intense fires and longer fire seasons — changes that are already being observed, he said.
Under worsening conditions, fires are harder to put out: They grow too big to get to safely, and even aerial suppression isn't necessarily possible because of the wind.
So, what does that mean for indigenous fire techniques?
They'll still help, Leonard said. Areas that have undergone preventative burning lead to less intense fires. But the problem is, under the worst of conditions, the fire will still be able to burn straight through the land, despite any preventative measures.
A resident throws a bucket of water onto a smoldering tree on his property in Wingello, Australia.




Which means that towns are still in danger.
"We need to solve that inevitability by effective township design," Leonard said.
In other words, indigenous burning techniques aren't enough on their own. Communities will need to properly manicure adjacent forests, landscape their own private property, and have effective house design and maintenance, Leonard said.


Aboriginal techniques require more money. The cost might be worth it
The most common way fires are handled now is with medium-intensity fires, Leonard said. It's similar to these smaller, more frequent fires, except it burns a little hotter, covers more land and is just a little more intense.
Basically, it's more bang for your buck. And that's what this comes down to.
You have to "use limited budget on what will be the most prolific way" to prevent fires, Leonard said.
It takes a lot of labor to ignite small frequent fires everywhere — even just using these tactics near towns can be labor intensive, Leonard said.  
Gammage noted that cost is a common concern when it comes to transitioning completely to Aboriginal fire practices. But he said he's not impressed by that argument.
"It's costing much more (to fight these fires)," he said. "Fires that destroy 2.5 million acres, which is what's happening now, it's shameful. It's a disgrace that anyone could let such terrible fires run amok."
A view of the landscape after a bushfire on Mount Weison, 74 miles (120 km) northwest of Sydney.




What Australians should really learn from the Aboriginal people is custodianship over the land, Leonard said. The way Aboriginal people deeply know and care for the land is something Australians should ponder and embrace.   
Gammage pointed to an incident on Tuesday, when a local fire brigade managed to steer a bushfire around their community, despite being told their town was "undefendable," according to the Sydney Morning Herald.
The brigade, using their knowledge of the land, stayed behind while others evacuated. And rather than burn right through their town, the brigade was able to save houses and prevent deaths.
It just shows the importance of knowing local fire conditions, Gammage said. Knowing the land -- just as the Aboriginal people do.

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Intensive vs Standard Treatment of Hyperglycemia and Functional Outcome in Patients With Acute Ischemic StrokeThe SHINE Randomized Clinical Trial

Karen C. Johnston, MD1; Askiel Bruno, MD2; Qi Pauls, MS3;Christiana E. Hall, MD4; Kevin M. Barrett, MD5; William Barsan, MD6; Amy Fansler, MPH7; Katrina Van de Bruinhorst, MA4; Scott Janis, PhD8; Valerie L. Durkalski-Mauldin, PhD3; for the Neurological Emergencies Treatment Trials Network and the SHINE Trial Investigators


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JAMA. 2019;322(4):326-335. doi:10.1001/jama.2019.9346

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20 Things In Life That Are Just Not Worth It!
Lessons from bad decisions!

This article came out of a casual night of perusing questions on Quora. I was new to the platform and felt like engaging in a few questions to feel it out.

I came across the question “what are 20 things that are not worth it? ” and I felt a hint of bitterness well up from less-than-satisfactory experiences and I thought: “oh yeah, I can answer this”.

It seemed like a great opportunity to exhume these feelings and perhaps turn them into lessons or personal reminders.

The list I came up with was, at times, controversial; but to my surprise, my answer had some modest success. I thought perhaps it may bring some value to others if I list and expand upon them.

Be warned, this is all based on my own experience and observations. Because of this, I am taking a more informal tone.

What Are 20 Things That Are Not Worth It?

1. Dating people who have been traumatised or abused in the past who have not dealt with it.

We are supposed to be empathetic to victims and give them every chance we can. After all, it is not their fault what happened to them. This is the appropriate response. But not all people try to — or even can — get better. Hurt people hurt people. You need to be careful who you are vulnerable with otherwise you too will be abused.

Some of these battles are worth it, but if you leave yourself open to someone with resulting personality issues, like people who won’t fully commit (for self-preservation); play mind games (for power); make continuously poor decisions; have addictive behaviour; or punish you for the actions of their wrongdoers — it will take a toll on you long-term to say the least.

2. Collaborating or working with friends merely because they are friends.

I have been friendly with people and out of that affinity or mutual interest I have committed to agreements that ended up massive failures. A few friends never fully paid me for work, people I have worked with had not cultivated a useful level of skill, and others simply would be flaky or entitled in contradiction to the effort they were putting in.

You should work with people based on their evident skills, reputation, and all-round professionalism. If you just so happen to get along well, then that’s great and more often than not, you will.

3. Having sex with someone because you felt pressured.

Often women feel pressured to oblige in order to evade confrontation, or ‘do what is expected of them’, and men feel obligated to pursue, to evade the humiliation of sexual ineptitude. These are tragic motivations for something so intimate.

You must understand that your body is yours and you determine your values and the situations in which you might share that experience with, and with whom. Not cave to external pressures.

This is your inalienable right, and if you don’t feel comfortable about something then you absolutely must not give in because you are acting as if your feelings don’t matter. You might think you won’t remember these occasions, but they linger. If you’re not advocating for yourself, who will?

4. Pursuing ‘spirituality’ for purpose.

Many people who pursue new-age spirituality for purpose seem to end up selling one of its ideologies, products, or become more confused. The enlightenment of this philosophy is often “nothingness”, “being” and the “non-self”. This can be an impediment to self-actualisation.

Self-actualisation is you as something defined, engaging in your talents and developing potentials. New age spirituality however, portrays you as something indefinable. This can result in eroding your ambition and capacity to work on your skills to unfold your potential. It can take away motivation by taking away a sense of a value hierarchy that allows you to pursue some things over others. It replaces vision of the future with the eternal present. Many people are stuck in liminality and indecision because of this.

The ego is the devil in this brand of spirituality, which is really the individual identity/personality as opposed to a collective identity. A kind of tribalism that elevates animal over man, nature over civilisation, imagination over the concrete... you’ll see that the advocates for this philosophy will dress in a tribal style that reflects this.

5. Challenging people’s politics online.

Many things will threaten your values online, perpetually.
Unless it allows you to understand your own or another’s position with more resolution — it’s a waste of time. Almost always others won’t change their mind, so pick your battles.

Let’s be honest, it doesn’t matter how many ‘libtards’ or ‘nazis’ you destroyed, you were probably baited, trolled, or unironically responding to a satire article anyway.

6. Ranting on social media.

Rants are emotional. The purpose isn’t necessarily to share carefully analysed information, but to purge. What sounds reasonable and effective when you are emotional is definitely unreliable in translating to those who are casually perusing social media. You probably look like an uninformed idiot that can’t control themselves. It just provides cringe for your future self.

Good rants are usually bottled up contemplations of professionals that have analysed a situation for a period of time, which provides fertile grounds for cultivating eloquence and insight instead of tumbling out like hot diarrhea.

7. Drinking a large amount of alcohol, in any situation.

This is a surprisingly hard conclusion for people to come to. It’s like every time there’s a bad experience, poor decision, or bad hangover, any potential lesson learned suddenly vanishes from memory — but once you see this in plain terms it kinda makes sense, right?

Alcohol can help foster a good time but quite often ruins one. It seems to make people a little more open but also a little more like animals; invoking the usually suppressed primal drives of lust and aggression to combat the wounding but necessary moderation of daily civility.

8. Telling an addicted person in the middle of their habit to stop the object of their addiction.

In my experience, they will not be receptive.
If someone has an insecurity that has allowed for an addiction, which in turn has created an alternate reality in the mind of the addict that rationalises away any consequence of their addiction, they are in deep shit.

You telling them they have to stop something they won’t acknowledge because it means dealing with the very things they are willing to destroy their lives over to avoid is probably not going to go well.

These people must come to conclusions themselves and won’t ask for help until their illusion breaks down after some heavy persuasion by life.

9. Getting involved in a quarrel between two people in a relationship.

Do you really want to get involved? You could become the scapegoat for their conflict. It takes a hell of a lot for people to break up sometimes, to the point of being delusional. For example, some people will absolutely refuse to believe a partner has cheated even if they are told by multiple friends or even by the person who has slept with them themselves. Others will stay despite emotional manipulation or abuse. Steer clear if that’s an ethical option.

10. Social Media

It’s a good organiser for communication and contacts but it will take valuable amounts of time away from you. It’s designed to keep you engaged. Your brain will adapt to it and reward you for your engagement.

Over time this habituates you and creates dependency. Your impulses will be wired and your habits out of alignment with your own goals.

A study in 2012 estimated that businesses in the U.S. lose $650 billion a year because of social media, which could only be worse today. What could be the equivalent loss in your life?

11. Blind research or infotainment on the internet.

If you’re the type that consumes a substantial amount of infotainment or reads articles until 3:00am because you want to know everything interesting happening in society, or know everything about multiple topics that interest you, you will overwhelm yourself and not remember anything if there is no specific project or purpose.

This is a tricky one because it convinces you that you are learning, but that tense feeling of unfulfilment after a while of consuming more information is still there as if you had just played video games that entire time.
Deep learning is slow and focused.

12. Working a job with poor safety standards.

I was working outside one day when a slab of thick metal fell from above me and nicked the side of my head before it hit the ground. That could have been the end of me. My boss had got an angle grinder and ground off half a catch for a chain that held a metal weight designed to bash large posts into the ground — because it was ‘getting in the way’.

That was a massive wake-up call for me because I hated that job, and if I had died doing it, the amount of anger I would feel would have warped space and time to raise me from the dead and avenge my nihilistic end over a goddamn fence.

You really want to die because some bozo dropped something on you? It’s not worth it.

13. Buying unnecessary luxuries if you’re below upper middle class.

This is how people lose money. They try to buy prestige, not earn it. This could be a car you become indebted to, owning the latest technology at any given moment, and just generally living beyond your means instead of saving or investing. It really can be hard to determine whether you really need/want/deserve something but the ‘tell’ is that you’re rationalising.

Remember, delayed gratification is a major determinant of success.

14. Staying up late when you know you have work the next day.

I hate to sound like your mother but even I still do this often because I feel like I never get enough done.
I especially stay up late when more work (for other people) is on the next day because I feel the pressure of not being able to do what I want to for an extended period of time, so I cram it in the night before; but the next day is always more miserable and then you have no energy left for your own activities and goals afterwards.

Sleep is incredibly important for your body, mind and sanity. It’s easily seen as something you can sacrifice, but it isn’t.

15. Dating someone with different core values.

No, love does not conquer all.
“No matter how great the initial chemistry is, if your values are on two different pages, the odds of your marriage working decrease significantly.” - Chana Levitan.

It’s really possible to waste many years of your life with someone incompatible and each of you will think you’re right in your own standing, and try to change the other person so it ends up a power struggle.

Figure out your own values and personality and find someone similar, but perhaps not too close as some challenge is a good thing.
Sometimes compromise only breeds resentment.

16. Acting in revenge.

If you truly understand revenge as a means of justice, you’ll understand it’s futile. The only true justice is when a person understands their mistake, regrets it in proportion to the error, makes an appropriate amount of effort or sacrifice to remedy the mistake, and their new values render them incapable of the error.

This justice unfortunately is condemned to only come from their personal realisation, but some sense of justice comes from the fact that if they don’t realise it, they have not grown. They are stunted.

In revenge, nobody learns anything. You give the perpetrator reason for rationalising away their own guilt by giving them evidence that you are just as bad as they are.

17. Neglecting Your Potential.

People neglect their potential by putting off cultivating skills in areas they are passionate about or might have an inkling that they are, creating a tension that is complicated, painful, and ill-defined.

It’s a tragedy when people neglect these things because these are what will develop them into who they want to be and allow them to provide value in the ways they want to provide it, despite the fear and self-doubt involved in the process.

18. Working long-term in a job you hate or with people who treat you poorly.

This will wear down your confidence and waste precious time. Your life will become a routine and that is all. Developing a means of mental, emotional and perhaps physical escape won’t be healthy. We should always continue to develop and act on a vision that helps motivate us in life and express who we are.

19. Higher education when you don’t have a plan.

You’ll just have a useless degree and a lot of debt. Sometimes it is better to be entrepreneurial and go your own way if you’re up for the work and risk. Most people report learning everything they know on the job. It depends on the career choice of course. People might become suspicious if you’re a basement chemist.

Also, beware of subjects in the humanities. The subjects are valuable but it’s not like many people out there are going to employ you as a philosopher.

It could sure help you gain a position through exuding a sense of sophistication or erudition, but if you go this route you’re likely going to have to have great entrepreneurial skills as well in order to make a living.

20. Chasing fun and being whimsical in your 20’s.

Sure, you can do some of this. Experiences in travel and work are good things. I’m no fun police, but if you don’t have a sense of pressure because you’re in your 20’s, you’ll start hitting the wall pretty hard at 27–30 when you realise you either haven’t achieved anything, you don’t know how to support the rest of your life and you’ve wasted those years not giving a thought to your future.

Beware of rash decisions as well, especially when it comes to relationships and sex. You can be stuck with someone much sooner than you had the chance to determine your values.

Do your best to make a plan as you experience more of life and as above, cultivate skills.

Written by Joshua Press
Self, relationships, and seeking substance in the spiritual. Contributor to Medium’s top publications. Owner of Romantic Renaissance.

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'Kenapa awal sangat bam...' 'Kenapa awal sangat bam...'
WARTAWAN SINAR HARIAN || 10 Februari 2020

Atas: Achey menangisi pemergian Abam. - Foto Instagram AcheyBawah: Fad menitiskan air mata tatkala menyampaikan berita pemergian Abam kepada peminatnya. - Foto Instagram Fad Bocey







SHAH ALAM - Kenapa awal sangat bam... ya ALLAH, abam dah takda guyss, demikian luahan sebak Achey ketika menerima berita mengejutkan di atas pemergian rakan seperjuangannya, Abam Bocey, hari ini.

Achey atau nama sebenarnya Mohd Nasir Hamzah menangisi pemergian Abam setelah memuat naik satu video klip ringkas memaklumkan berita sedih itu kepada orang ramai.

Dengan kata-kata ringkas Achey memberitahu, "Abam dah tak ada guyss... "

Video dimuat naik 46 minit lalu di Instagram miliknya telah meraih lebih 570,218 tontonan daripada para artis dan peminatnya.
Sebaik sahaja peminat menerima berita itu, rata-ratanya terkedu malah seolah-olah tidak percaya namun semuanya mengucapkan takziah di atas pemergian Allahyarham Abam atau nama sebenarnya Syed Umar Mokhtar Syed Mohd Redzuan, 32.
Turut terkesan pemergian Abam, ahli kumpulan Bocey, Fad apabila hanya mampu menyatakan kesedihan di atas pemergian Allahyarham ke rahmatullah.

"Allahhuakbar, allahhuakbar, allahhuakbar, innalillahiwainnailaihirojiun... kenapa kau (Abam) pergi dulu bam? kenapa tak tunggu, aku jauh ni, aku nak peluk cium kauuuuuuuuu." luahnya di Instagram.
Difahamkan, Fad atau nama sebenarnya Muhammad Fadzlie Nizam kini berada di Jepun bersama keluarganya.

Tinjauan di Instagram Allahyarham, kali terakhir memuat naik entri adalah lima hari lalu dengan kapsyen, "We are partner guys.... Terus maju untuk ke depan..."

Melihat pada ruang komen di Instagramnya, semua peminat menzahirkan ucapan takziah malah ada juga masih terkejut dengan berita pemergian Allahyarham yang disifatkan sebagai insan yang sangat baik.

"Macam tak disangka-sangka. Semoga arwah tenang di sana," kata bangaheim.

Kata eyjarosli, "Al-Fatihah Abam. Terima Kasih kerana pernah menghiburkan kami dalam industri. Semoga Abam di tempatkan dalam kalangan para solihin. Salam takziah buat seluruh ahli keluarga Abam."