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60 peratus wanita bujang hidup dalam keadaan jiwa tertekan! (Bukan aku yg cakap)
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The single female suicide factor and gender differences
Friday, 08 Nov 2019
7:00 AM MYT
IN 2018,66% of the calls made to Befrienders Kuala Lumpur came from women, and of this, 60% of them were single.
However, Sunway Medical Centre consultant psychiatrist Dr Tee Bee Chin said the figures do not mean that women are more depressed than men, or that women have more emotional problems than men.
“By nature, women are more likely to share and talk about issues troubling them.
“On the other hand, men – based on upbringing and conditioning – are told not to cry and to stay strong in facing problems or to protect their family.
“So as a result, they tend to try and solve their problems on their own, ” she said.
Both women and men, Dr Tee explained, had different coping mechanisms when it comes to dealing with problems and depression.
“Men often tend to be angry, aggressive or resort to risk-taking behaviours such as overworking, abusing substances, gambling, or changing their sexual behaviour to cope with stress, whereas women find crying and venting a relief, ” she said.
Indeed, more men actually end up committing suicide.
For family members and carers of those who are depressed or suicidal, Dr Tee said empathy and understanding were important in dealing with the problem.
“It is good to engage in open communications among family members, and try not to pathologise depression, because in doing so, you are telling the sufferer that they are mentally weak or incompetent, ” she added.
For those dealing with loved ones suffering from depression or having suicidal thoughts, Dr Tee encouraged direct communications and showing ways to seek help.
“First, validate their feelings and be patient and gentle when asking questions.
“Asking them if they are suicidal and what kind of method they are thinking of (to commit suicide) can give those who have suicidal ideas the chance to be open about their suicidal feelings, to talk about their problems, and to feel that somebody cares.
“If the sufferer is unable to function daily, offer to bring them to a doctor for help, ” she said.
Seeing a psychiatrist or psychologist at government or private hospitals involves the same procedures, with the difference being the cost and waiting time.
“In a private hospital, the patient has to pay for consultation, therapy, counselling and medication when seeing a psychiatrist.
“In a government hospital, it is free or there is a minimal fee, ” said Dr Tee. |
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Pulak dah... Aku relax je ni.. |
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Mana ada
kakak aku aman aman je terbang sana sini tiap masa happy je tak payah sakit kepala dia cakap
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fushimi replied at 8-11-2019 09:28 AM
Mana ada
kakak aku aman aman je terbang sana sini tiap masa happy je tak payah sakit kepala dia c ...
2 adik aku pun sama. baru balik dr holiday di Jepun 10 hari dgn kekawan pompuan bujang. |
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Kan article Tu mention doesn't mean pempuan lebih depress, cuma sebab pempuan lagi rajin nak seek help, lagi senang nak lush perasaan... |
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ish, mana ada, diorg happy2 saja la
ada kawan2 aku yg masih bujang, yg decide tak nak kawin bkn sbb takde org nak
happy saja.. travel sana sini, rumah besar, kereta besar, duit berkepuk, aset byk.
aku yg kawin lg tertekan kot dok fikir kos sara hidup walau gaji lebih kurang sama saja kami ni
yuran tadika saja thn ni cecah 3k+, bulanan lg, pengasuh, mcm2 laa...
tp itu jelah harta yg dpt beza aku dgn diorg, anak.
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ye la sis..iols happy je..sbb takde benda nak pikir.pikir diri sendiri je
in fact kawan yg dah lama tak jumpa, baru ni jumpa dia pi cakap kat kawan2 dia tengok aku skrg nampak happy n ceria n glowing. ye la masa muda asik merempan, asik sedih pasal bf pasal nak kawin pasal org tanya bila nak kawin mana tak kemurungan. skrg takde apa nak pikir
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orang yg happy la paling banyak tekanan.. |
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orang bujang tua
malam malam nangis gak
tak ada anak
terpaksa pulak menagih kasih dengan anak sedara
nampak aje happy joli sana sini |
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helicornia replied at 8-11-2019 10:29 AM
ye la sis..iols happy je..sbb takde benda nak pikir.pikir diri sendiri je
in fact kawan yg dah ...
Tu pa.. Kalau merempan pun sbb penat kerja.. Yg tu saja.. Bab bf.. Nadaaa.. Hahahaha.. |
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tiap bangsa ni lain pergaulan...
luar mesia lain dalam mesia lain
dan mesia pon dah rmai outsiders kan...
tapi dlm Islami ni, kaum hawa dijadikan SEBAGAI TEMAN PD ADAM ...
itulah fitrah suci HAKIKAT kejadian yg bernama WANITA...
kerana itu dlm Islam dah lengkap dgn surah2 sbg peringatan, panduan, nasehat dan rawatan serta perawatan pencegahan sbg LANDASAN HIDUP YG SELAMAT AMAN DUNIA AKHERAT... |
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Pompuan single la happy. Tak payah nak susah jaga anak, layan kerenah laki. Banyak masa boleh jaga diri, capai career success and progression, buat kerja amal, travel, try benda2 baru. Duit boleh labur kat diri sendiri je. Society jer yg sibuk buat as if ada berlaki tu yg paling penting. Padahal, kalau belum berjumpa jodoh, relax dan redha.. lagi senang. |
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kalau dah population pompuan lebih banyak dari lelaki.. of course ler % tu tinggi...
adeh.....opis aku ni aman2 jaa ... tiap2 tahun bercuti... yg stress tu jenis tak menikmati hidup...merempan jer...kalau kawin pun x kemana....
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Iols pun happy aman2 jah. Tak perlu pikir pasal orang lain except family. Iols nangis masa tengok kdrama jah  |
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cutieslilies replied at 8-11-2019 10:51 AM
kalau dah population pompuan lebih banyak dari lelaki.. of course ler % tu tinggi...
adeh.....opi ...
kalau ikut population data dr jbtn perangkaan, lelaki lebih ramai dr pompuan sis. but isunya adalah kualiti |
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Edited by batmana at 8-11-2019 11:52 AM
ko salah tanya ni..kene tanya psl happy hidup sorg ni pada andartu yg dh dpt kawin skalipun lwat pstu dpt anak
tanya dia
apakah sama
"dpt emas setinggi gunung dgn dpt lihat senyuman bayi yg dilahirkan sendiri? mana yang dia paling happy dlm alam semesta..?"
pastinya dia bagi jawapan yg sepatutnya..
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Kan bagus kalau mak you pun fikir macam tu masa dia muda.... Tak perlu sara anak, hantar belajar tinggi2. Just enjoy cantikkan diri, travel, kerjaya.
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Yg tak single pun ramai jer yg jiwa tertekan. |
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Tapi ada jer andartu tu memang tak laku ditambah lagi dengan attitude dia...tapi dia pandai dia spin balik kata memang tak la dia nak kawin dengan lelaki macam ini lelaki macam itu kira bukan standard dia la, tapi itu kata dia...kenyataan nye dia memang tak pernah ada bf dan takde lelaki ajak kawin pun. Tapi dia perlekehkan balik kita yang dah kawin ni kena jaga anak,kena masak pas balik kerja bla bla. She make so good statements of being single, tapi she make so bad comments orang yang dah kawin, so ko yang dah kawin ni akan terasa la. Kenyataan nye memang takde lelaki yang nak dekat kat dia. |
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slavehunter replied at 8-11-2019 12:50 PM
Tapi ada jer andartu tu memang tak laku ditambah lagi dengan attitude dia...tapi dia pandai dia spin ...
Cantik ke x kwn tu, mcm i, mmg memilih2, smpai x laku n rs lg selesa hidup bujang gitu. Lgpun ak tgk tahap kemalasan naya partner ak nnti. Tp ak xdela perlekehkan org berkahwin, lg happy klu kwn ada anak. |
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Post time 8-11-2019 08:29 AM
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