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Post time 6-4-2020 06:08 PM
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satriamisae replied at 5-4-2020 01:16 PM
Sama mcm i, tggu je dia meej sebab maluuu.
Pastu dia tanya kenapa diam jee.
Tp iols x tau nk tnya apa selain tnya khabar? 
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Post time 6-4-2020 06:09 PM
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Amin123 replied at 5-4-2020 01:08 PM
biasa la akhir zaman en haha org semua cari keseronokan je... Yelah dgn bini dah berpuluh tahun sa ...
Astagaa....insaf lh weyyyhhh |
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bestnye plot cerita ni kaka...huntonglah si wife itu...jgn kene look down dgn in-laws sudah sbb biasa-biasa...till jannah ok shuben hensem namatey dgn the ordinary wifey
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good luck TT...ada je kolig tmpt kerja yg mmg lama hidup sendiri...org keliling yg kenenkan...yg bestnya sbb dah matured kot kan...steady je jd ibu&wife...independent&tak merempan mcm weols yg kahwin muda...yg dpt kawen duda teros sandang title datin pun ada...tuah badan...
dlm group geng perempuan ex-sekolah pulak ada 4-5 org yg single...tp weols tak kecam apa pun...taw-taw sorang-sorang kawen dlm umur 40++ ni...tinggal lagi 2...sorang tu tunda sbb covid plus dia pun mmg frontliner...bz namatey...so i yaqqin jodoh TT akan hadir nanti |
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i agree with you,some of us yang lambat kawin ni,i think we have underlying issues,like me i kept having the same problem with my past relationships, and i thought why on earth is so difficult for me to settled with someone that i like, it is always at certain time they will develop same pattern and leave or lost interest then only i learnt that maybe i have a codependency issue.
For TT dont worry love will come to you just keep your option open and cuba je berkawan tanpa ada limitation on yourself,and if you think you have some issues with relationship, you have to work on relationship with yourself,love yourself dengan melakukan apa yang awak suka mcm self improvement ke hobi etc,but im sure you have done that  and if the place you live now dont serve you try to move somewhere or go travel you will never know maybe jodoh you kat tempat lain. Pasal mak kita memang la orang tua ni kalau anak dia dah lepas kawin rasa lengkap tapi tak semestinya kan kalau tak jumpa yang someone can sweeps of your feet tak pe lambat skit janji bahagia nanti Insya Allah 
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Iols saja2 godek forum cari malam ni selalunya buka forum gosip je tp terjumpa thread ni plk.
Thank you for this advise sis (I assume u a sis? Hehe). Iols sgt suka baca tulisan uols. Rasa mcm tertusuk tepat kat hati iols.
Iols baru masuk early 30s this year tp masih single and available. So tahun ni iols berazam utk cuba open up utk serious relationship tp mcm TT, iols still rasa susah nk respons to interest by mana2 lelaki yg cuba approach iols. Tbh my last relationship was more than 10 years ago, which lebih kurang lepas skolah menengah. Kalau ikutkan mcm cinta monyet je tapi somehow iols mmg trauma dgn pengalaman tu sampai at some point iols jadi sgt inferior and overthinking dgn setiap tindak tanduk i sendiri and even the other person action.
Tapi sejak setahun dua ni iols dah rasa more confident with myself, and i skrg banyak fokus utk buat diri sendiri happy dulu. Byk me-time, self reward diri sendiri etc. Iols rasa nk completely lose that emotional baggage (+ other things u mention in your next posts ie. rendah diri etc) tu still akan amik masa yg agak lama, atau mgkin iols rasa macam ni sbb belum jumpa org yg buat iols betul2 selesa and nak spend whole life with.
Anyhow, I truly appreciate reading all your advise dlm thread ni. Betul2 sedarkan iols apa exactly benda2 yg menghalang i dari move on ke stage seterusnya. InsyaAllah, i percaya dgn timing dan jodoh tak salah alamat. Nah bunga utk TT jugak 
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Edited by Zeatyisaac at 19-4-2020 08:40 PM
Suka baca thread ni. I dah lama lupakan impian untuk berumah tangga. Kisah cinta I yang tak berkesudahan membuatkan I rasa give up. Kisah cinta yang banyak namun sentiasa ada halangan. Dan my exes akan kahwin selepas putus ngan I. My friends said, I adalah punca mereka kahwin. Kalau tak bercinta dengan I mereka mungkin tak tahu apa erti cinta yang sebenarnya. I yang groom mereka to be a bridegroom. Hebatkan I. Gitulah.....
Eh, macam luahan perasaan pulak. Sorry TT. |
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I dikelilingi org2 yg single...my sis, my bff kt U, my bff zmn skolah yg dh kawin 2,3 org je... So yes, org kata 'comfort zone' gtu stiap kali ktorg outing kuar ramai2 pn... Bhaya jugak kn gini ahahahahah... So i buka tred ni mewakili mereka yg single jugak..i share sket2 yg uols sume komen dlm ni..thank u sbb bg nasihat semangat n positif vibes.. Msa PKP ni lg lh time du x buat apa mula lh pikir apa nk buat dgn hidup ini
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Mula2 buka tred ni sbb i x tau nk start berkawan dgn lelaki mcm mna kt mna etc...selama i in relationship mmg i tutup hbs x knal mna2 laki pn..ada sorg dua knal je trus i btau i not single supaya dorg tau limit pergaulan... Setia sgt lh konon nya gtu kn...last2 mkn diri plak rsa 
Now berharap PKP ni cpt berakhir sng sket nk bersosial kt luar ahahaha
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Hi sis...hope tred ni membntu sikit sebanyak utk uols jugak ye. At least uols muda sket dr iols, so act fast jgn jd mcm iols okeh Dh msuk umur mcm iols ni (36 nxt month) duk pikir org laki pn msti nk cari yg lg muda kan wlupn iols xla buruk sgt huhuhu. Tp seriusly kdg2 deep down mmg rsa x hbs lg emotional baggage yg ada kt dlm ni..esp time skang ni bila sorg2 mcm2 terimbau memori...huhh
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I pnah ckp a few times to my ex, klu umur 35 x kawin mmg iols xnk berharap dh.. Iols ckp mcm tu kt dia as a hint utk dia tp dia bodoh ke apa xtaulah. Mmg xda tnda2 dia nk menuju ke pelamin dgn iols... Tp ngaku iols jodoh dia sbb dh couple kn... So iols back off gtu aje b4 umur 35 sbb rsa mcm bodoh sgt dh setia lama2 tp xtau ending... Tp tu lah as wanita normal, xleh lari lh mmg nature kn nk rsa hidup berpasangan ni.. So kna jugak start mula langkah blk wlu pn small step gtu... |
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uols, kaka doa uols dipermudah urusan dan ditemukan jodoh dengan pasangan yang uols dambakan..
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aechae replied at 19-4-2020 10:14 PM
I pnah ckp a few times to my ex, klu umur 35 x kawin mmg iols xnk berharap dh.. Iols ckp mcm tu kt ...
Hi TT, Ur ex umur brapa? My ex sebiji mcm ni..i couple dgn my ex masa belajar, hingusan lagi hahaha gatal kan. Masa tu umur dia dah 30an, dah establish. After a few times dating, dia bw i bkenalan dgn family & org yg dia rapat. Happy mmg happy tapi setakat tu je la..rasa mcm trophy gf plak. Byk yg berlaku buat I terfikir dia blm puas enjoy so i pun blah je la dr dia. Taknak buangkn masa mharap pada yg tak pasti. Byk lg benda i nk kejar dlm hidup.
Tetiba last year kitorg terjumpa then dia minta nk couple blk. Tp sama je..dah masuk 40pun still the same. Bkn rushing..tapi sekurang2nya tunjuklah effort buat kita yakin nk pertaruhkan masa depan bersamanya.
Skrg dah malas nak fikir dah...cuma rasa sunyi je tambah2 musim pkp ni hahahahaha |
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I pon da 10 yrs sgl.. In between tu mmg i kwn je dgn semua.. Social apps, web cari jodoh semua i da try tp tu la maybe mcm tt jgk kot yg dtg semua x berkenan.. Bila kita kenan kena ghosting la laki org la duda ada ank la.. Huhuhu.. Tp lately ni byk duda with kids and laki org je nk knl.. Apa tua sgt ke iols nii |
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Post time 24-4-2020 08:02 AM
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jepp replied at 20-4-2020 12:24 AM
uols, kaka doa uols dipermudah urusan dan ditemukan jodoh dengan pasangan yang uols dambakan..
Hi kaka jepp tenkiu...lama x nmpk kt porem |
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Post time 24-4-2020 08:13 AM
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MawarKelabuAsap replied at 24-4-2020 12:10 AM
Hi TT, Ur ex umur brapa? My ex sebiji mcm ni..i couple dgn my ex masa belajar, hingusan lagi hahah ...
Weols sebaya...tp tu lah xpaham lh org lelaki yg xmatang ke apa pesen gini...
klu psal bola ke game ke apa semangat sgt |
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Post time 24-4-2020 08:17 AM
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mishungu replied at 24-4-2020 01:08 AM
I pon da 10 yrs sgl.. In between tu mmg i kwn je dgn semua.. Social apps, web cari jodoh semua i da ...
Uols umur sama dgn iols ke? Iols ni duda ada ank pn xberminat dgn iols ...muka x nmpk ciri keibuan kot
Bab kna ghosting tu buat lg down sbnrnya...yelah mula2 korg beria kn lps seketika hilang plak huhhh |
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aechae replied at 24-4-2020 08:17 AM
Uols umur sama dgn iols ke? Iols ni duda ada ank pn xberminat dgn iols ...muka x nmpk ciri ke ...
Iols 31..uols brpe? Tp tu la before this parents x kalut sgt tp since last year dorg kalut la suruh i dgn my sis kawen.. Sbb dorg da tua kata bye nak tgk la ank2 ada org jaga.. Tp i selamat jgk la sbb ny eldest sis pon x kawen lg..
Ntah la kwn kata muka iols ni penuh ciri keibuan sbb tu duda terpikat kot tp kalo da knl baru dorg tau.. Hahahaha.. Iols slalu kena cop garang by laki2.. Huhu
Kan bab ghosting plng sakit hati memula tu dorg beriye nak knl lps tu mati tgh jln ke apa.. |
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aechae replied at 24-4-2020 08:13 AM
Weols sebaya...tp tu lah xpaham lh org lelaki yg xmatang ke apa pesen gini...
klu psal bola ke g ...
My ex kalau psl career & outdoor activity, dia mmg semangat. Itu yg buat i suka dia. Dia jenis happy go lucky and friendly dgn semua org, tp dgn org yg dia syg dia jadi sgt serius dan garang..sensitif tak bertempat. So org yg btl2 rapat dgn dia je tau betapa tegasnya dia. Lgpun parents dia da lama takde then dia plak anak sulong,adik2 lelaki pun dah beso2 stay sekali dgn dia. So i nmpk perkahwinan tu blm jd priority dlm hidup dia. Family ur ex plak mcmana? |
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mishungu replied at 24-4-2020 01:40 PM
Iols 31..uols brpe? Tp tu la before this parents x kalut sgt tp since last year dorg kalut la su ...
Nxt month iols 36...my eldest sis pn x kawin lg nk i mmg stay dgn dia..tp lain situasi sbb dia mmg xberpacaran kot, tp iols dh dkt 7 thn kapel msa bwa haluan masing2 tu...byg kn frust nya tu cmna kn...
Uols ada ciri keibuan ok lh tu, iols ciri keremajaan je kot org x amek serius kot slalu ..yg tertarik mostly yg lg muda dr iols which is iols mmg x prefer, so how?
Gtu lh kisah nya... |
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