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A Walk Thru My Friendship Memory Lane....

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Post time 24-4-2020 05:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
KIM.K replied at 24-4-2020 07:23 AM
Sihir bukan cerita dongeng sis huntok meraih simpati ke play victim. Hatta yang ada phd pon menggu ...

ya Allah... ye ke... hmm kita doa semoga dijauhkan benda ni semualah kim. Takut dengar... tp ye la mmg ada je kan manusia jahat mcm ni
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Post time 24-4-2020 06:30 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
per706 replied at 24-4-2020 01:17 PM
Tq sarah for sharing  
Jadi skarang u still berkwan dgn dia lagi ye..dia pernah tlg u msa sush  ...

Alhamdulillah, setakat ini tak ada keperluan mendesak sampai terpaksa minta pertolongan dia. My family (parents & siblings) sangat supportive kan... so tak tau la kan samada respon dia sama je mcm dia buat kat kawan2 lain atau tak..
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 Author| Post time 24-4-2020 06:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
sarahmirza replied at 24-4-2020 06:30 PM
Alhamdulillah, setakat ini tak ada keperluan mendesak sampai terpaksa minta pertolongan dia. My fa ...

Alhamdulillah..just jga ukhwah je la kan....musuh pon x sedap pulak walaupon kita x selesa attitude dia mcam tu..as long as kita kekal jadi dri n x folo habit tu...ok la tu kan...

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Post time 24-4-2020 06:38 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 24-4-2020 02:21 PM
i benci kawan jenis spesis ni.. selfish so buang masa simpan kawan jenis ni.

Kadang kita pun xt ...

Dulu2 i tak sedar perangai dia sbb tak lalui situasi sebegitu kan.. cuma sejak 4-5 tahun ni, start dari kawan i yang meninggal dunia then kawan yg nak pinjam duit tu & kawan2 yg sakit tu..

I ada sound dia masa kawan i yg sakit tu.... kita bila dengar ex classmate dah sakit kritikal stage 4 sure kita rasa nak pergi melawat tanya khabar.. masa i lawat kawan ni, dia ada tanya psl kawan i yg selfish ni.. sampai dah meninggal pun kawan i tu langsung tak jenguk walaupun i dah bg tau dia kawan sakit tu tanya psl dia..  i mmg sound dia cakap tak baik buat org sakit tenat mcm tu tapi dia entah, maybe rasa tak berdosa kot...

I buat2 biasa je skrg ni... Hujung tahun 2017 & 2018 kami sama2 pergi bercuti tapi tahun lepas tak plan pun sebab I rasa macam tak seronok pun...

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Post time 24-4-2020 06:41 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
per706 replied at 24-4-2020 06:32 PM
Alhamdulillah..just jga ukhwah je la kan....musuh pon x sedap pulak walaupon kita x selesa attitud ...

Aha buat biasa2 je... kalau dia text tanya apa2 i jawab, kalau dia komen kat FB i respon... tapi nak mcm dulu sesekali blk hometown ajak breakfast sama2 dah macam malas pulak...
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Post time 24-4-2020 08:54 PM | Show all posts
Edited by adila39 at 24-4-2020 01:36 PM
sarahmirza replied at 24-4-2020 10:38 AM
Dulu2 i tak sedar perangai dia sbb tak lalui situasi sebegitu kan.. cuma sejak 4-5 tahun ni, start ...

memang ramai je golongan mcm ni, yg jenis opportunits . Dia akan buat baik jika ada kepentingan. So usually apa kita boleh buat layan mcm biasa je tapi mmg tidakla nak rapat mcm biasa bila dah tau perangai
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 Author| Post time 24-4-2020 09:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 24-4-2020 08:54 PM
memang ramai je golongan mcm ni, yg jenis oppertunits . Dia akan buat baik jika ada kepentingan. S ...

Betul..opportunist ni sgt bahaya, dekat bila wangi, msa susah, dia dlu cabut lari...maklumla, da xde hasil utk dia lgi..sejenis muka xda malu pon ye...
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 Author| Post time 24-4-2020 09:05 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
sarahmirza replied at 24-4-2020 06:41 PM
Aha buat biasa2 je... kalau dia text tanya apa2 i jawab, kalau dia komen kat FB i respon... tapi n ...

Betul, kalu disapa layan aje la...tpi nk rapat sgt mmg berkira2 jugak kan...
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Post time 24-4-2020 09:37 PM | Show all posts
per706 replied at 24-4-2020 01:04 PM
Betul..opportunist ni sgt bahaya, dekat bila wangi, msa susah, dia dlu cabut lari...maklumla, da x ...

usually mereka je yang betul tak kira apa pun. so kita layan aje la...but sometimes bila dah lama kenal jadi kelakar
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 Author| Post time 24-4-2020 10:02 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 24-4-2020 09:37 PM
usually mereka je yang betul tak kira apa pun. so kita layan aje la...but sometimes bila dah lama  ...

Yg part kelakar tu betul..hahahahaha.
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Post time 24-4-2020 10:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
per706 replied at 24-4-2020 02:02 PM
Yg part kelakar tu betul..hahahahaha.

per, i baru perasan ada dua similar topik... boleh u tukar topik? like reminiscing friendship ke.. etc or i merge...edit topik k
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 Author| Post time 25-4-2020 12:42 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by per706 at 25-4-2020 12:54 AM
adila39 replied at 24-4-2020 10:53 PM
per, i baru perasan ada dua similar topik... boleh u tukar topik? like reminiscing friendship ke.. ...


Haah..sya ada terbca gak tdi..minx maaf sgt2 ya...boleh2..tpi msalah nya x tau nk edit camna...nt sya try jap.

Ok dah...ermmm any tips tak mcamana nk check tajuk yg da ada b4 bukk topic...tq (- -")

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Post time 25-4-2020 10:25 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
xde masalah la... small matter.. new title lagi gah.. boleh share more memorable experience...

ada.. nnt later i show.. guna hp payahlak..
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 Author| Post time 25-4-2020 11:35 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 25-4-2020 10:25 AM
xde masalah la... small matter.. new title lagi gah.. boleh share more memorable experience...

ad ...

Tq boss
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Post time 26-4-2020 02:28 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
per706 replied at 25-4-2020 03:35 AM
Tq boss

Today, pagi tadi kawan i whatsApp.. depressed dgn MCO ni. Anak pulak autism tiap malam xnak tido. Tengok tv tak boleh and hp pun x boleh anak tantrum.

Husband pulak xble ngajar football so no side income. Tulis aku dah fade up dgn life aku ni beb, dapat anak bangang.. nak tido mcm manusia normal pun xboleh. Jual frozen karipap pun x laku. Ni aku pregnant.. entahla malang nasib aku.


Haishh i baca i x reply until now sbb i xtau apa nak reply. I rasa kesian. But somehow i still rasa dia beruntung ada husband baik, anak sgt comel.. and on going therapy cuma life banyak hiccups... so i xtau how nak nasihat.. sbb klu ikut i.. i nak marah je.
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 Author| Post time 26-4-2020 03:42 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by per706 at 26-4-2020 03:48 PM
adila39 replied at 26-4-2020 02:28 PM
Today, pagi tadi kawan i whatsApp.. depressed dgn MCO ni. Anak pulak autism tiap malam xnak tido.  ...


One of ur best friend is it?I feel sorry for her, look a like the struggle is real...it is hard to be in her shoes rite now.plus the condition, dear jgn marah dia dia ek..i think it was the least thing she expected from u, thats y she find u just to release the grieve..

It is ok kalu u x dpt advice pon i rsa as long as u willing to hear ape yg dia nk luah kan...org pregnant emosi paham2 je la kan..nkmkema hadap prob yg pelbagai lgi..umur brapa ank dia tu ye...husbnd tlg x jga anak?if i may ask..she need a rest sebenarnya tu..kalau dpt husband totally taking care yg autism tu pon da cukup i rsa.give her some space.if able lot of own space.

Just let her do other thing je but not the kid for this time being..is it posible? What do u think..cuz i can sense that her emotion is fatigue.just cant give anymore..she really need a rest. Thats come first now..nk x nak husband kena tlg..can he?

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Post time 26-4-2020 03:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by adila39 at 26-4-2020 10:26 AM
per706 replied at 26-4-2020 07:42 AM
One of ur best friend is it?I feel sorry for her, look a like the struggle is real...it is hard  ...


yes per I agree dgn u thats why i x respond lagi. Cuz me the type swallow all and just deal with it.

Yes i think she is tired, lacking of sleep. Financially I think dia ok cuma x mewah like before.. perhaps exhausted sbb kena layan anak autism.

Perhaps yeahh a shoulder to cry on is good enaf. Yes We ve known each other 20yrs ago...if dulu she is a carefree lady.. travel around and bila kawen.. life berubah 360. I try my best to encourage her.. the only thing.. its the same issued year by year... yeap pitty her.

Life is tough sometimes.. kdg kita tgk org tu nampak je happy with husband and kids yg comel.. behind it kita x tau.
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 Author| Post time 26-4-2020 04:14 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by per706 at 26-4-2020 04:19 PM

Wowww lama tu 20 years..so she must trust u a lot la..treatment maksud you for depression ek..if it the case, i think her probs mite need a very long time to be settled..as long as she is not ok, it is hard for her to move on..she is the key..

I feel u, memang penat laa kan, since u da bley agak the problem yg dia nk luah tu..n you pon mungkin da repeat the same advice over n over again..yet she still come looking for you for the same thing..

Frankfully i see ur friend ni mcam i,huhuhuhu... we pretty much have same bad time to endour rite now, emotional breakdown/swing mood/kinds lost simetimes and kinda blurry where life will lead us from here..the thing is,we do need enough time to relax our emotion, it can help a bit to fight for a day...for me, thats y i do the colouring...at first husband cam x pham...tpi as the time goes, kdg dia teman la i colour2..cuz he know m kinda need it...

n i c u as my no 1 friend...huhuhuhu..now i know her feeling la...sorry no 1... (--") dia ada any hobby x? If not, i think she need to find one. Just to ease the emotion a bit..husband bley handle ank to with minimum help x..ke totally on her shoulder? Since she is pregnant..she really need enough rest.....
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Post time 26-4-2020 06:37 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
per706 replied at 26-4-2020 08:14 AM
Wowww lama tu 20 years..so she must trust u a lot la..treatment maksud you for depression ek..if it  ...

Hi per again, i find it very relaxing chatting w u. I hope u well and able to endure all the little things, the echo's in our head..you know we sometimes have that little thoughts.

Kawan I tu, dia ok.. suppose dia kena stay strong. She is not depression.. penat je i think sbb tido x cukup and like to think unnecessarily. Yeap... its the same thing over and over and maybe sbb dia pregnant I tahanla utk bash.. bukan to demotivate but... as a mum obviously memang have no choice but to stay strong and patience.

Nanti i will chat with her. And for u, a quick tips.. to forget our own.. why not helping others with mcm apa kita buat ni... replying comments to those who are in needs.. mcm opinion and mybe apa kita komen bagi depa idea.

And I pun beli buku coloring tu semalam kat shoppee hahaha... Mco ni definitely test mood kita. Hangin there ok!
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 Author| Post time 26-4-2020 07:39 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Ooo not depression...ok la...betul la tu...penat sgt agaknya..betullaa, mak2 ni nak x nk kena kuat utk keluarga, sakit ke x ke..kena act the same...

Well sis, welcome to my world, nt da ade yg siap share ye...hehehehe... Tu la...kdg rajin gak merayap tgok la sape ada masalh i tlg la bgi pendpt yg x diundang...hahhahaa

Thankx for ur advice ya!
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