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What would you prefer? Alpha or Beta Male?
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Okay i don't know if thread macam ni dah pernah wujud ke tidak..
but since i have been questioned a lot about this topic i nak tanya la opinion you all.
As far as I know, alpha male is where the man takes charge in the relationship, he leads also in control of most of the situation
and decision making.
While beta male is more obidient, submissive and soft.
So as a woman, i always prefer beta male, someone i can manage and someone who would listen to me. Dengar cakap kita, so tak pening 
But my current partner is an alpha. At first susah jugak nak dengar/ikut cakap dia but after a while i find it quite okay, makes my life easier when he in charge, especially decision making, he always comes up with ideas, solution etc.
But lately, friends have been asking and saying if i am being controlled by my partner, since dia nampak the other person is more dominant. i dont feel like im being controlled but even if he is in charge, is it a bad thing? does that make me less of a person?
So what do you guys think?
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Im an alpha female..my partner is beta male..tp there are times dia berubah jd alpha la ikut keadaan..alpha male yg i kenal, mmg jenis dpt bini beta..kalau alpha dgn alpha dia mcm too strong ah..siap dia sesama dia laki binik pun nk bersaing cth sapa cpt climb the carrier ladder... |
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Anyway TT cane u tau u alpha female?haha mcm i, my alpha male bgtau... |
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Aku ingat ikan laga betta male betta female...  |
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ALPHA MALE.. Aku ni alpha female.. Aku tak suka jadi queen control.. Hahahaha....aku nak rehat dari jadi terlalu berdikari.. Nak rasa juga dilindungi |
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I suka alpha male tp diorg ni majoriti tak reti dengar cakap. Susah nak nasihat contohnya jangan datang lewat, jangan amik masa, jangan pegang2
Kadang perangai macam iblis dtg lewat bersurai pun lewat, pegang2 ke tapi dia nasehat kat kita macam malaikat. Lagi2 bab layanan kepada dia..semua nak tiptop. Memang cepat kena maki dgn alpha bitch
Kalau tak reti jaga mulut, eloklah teruskan bermasturbasi sampai kiok. Kenalah faham you mungkin excel sikit bab kerja tapi komunikasi intim tak berapa mampo, insecure, tak memuaskan. Ko kawin jelah dengan diri sendiri
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Gamma male ada x?  |
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iols prefer mana yang helok jahh |
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my friends and previous partner beritahu.. so far dari segi career and all memang i jenis independant.. and most times i yang akan dictate mana hala tuju relationship tu. decision making semua..
but now i macam mellow banyak. but it feels nice too.. no pressure
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ikan laga pun ada jenis ke? ok info baru.. tak penah tahu
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Betul.. sometimes it's nice to have someone to protect us. not that we are weak, but it feels nice to know that our partner can be our saviour too. hidup pun lebih relax
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alpha male ni tak boleh di kongkong sis.. kena lepaskan dia free.. baru dia datang balik.. kalau you control, hmmm lagi lah macam macam dia buat..
This i learn from my current partner.. if i try to dictate or want things my way.. hmm memang terbalik la rumah tu dia mengamuk. so as for career pun, i relax relax je buat business.. i let him perceive i dependant on him for advice and so on.. tenang hidup
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hahaha.. yang ini wajib sis
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ramaramu replied at 26-6-2020 01:07 PM
Betul.. sometimes it's nice to have someone to protect us. not that we are weak, but it feels nice ...
Kannn.. Bukan x boleh lindungi diri sendiri.. Tapi bagi sy dah lama sangat lindungi diri sendiri.. |
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ramaramu replied at 26-6-2020 01:11 PM
alpha male ni tak boleh di kongkong sis.. kena lepaskan dia free.. baru dia datang balik.. kalau y ...
I boleh tapi takkan semua nak adjust untuk dia
Datang lewat masa dating. Iols 20 minit dah sampai even 1.5jam sebelum dah start prepare. Sebab kita hargai masa dia yg busy plus kita pun busy
Thats why i said semuanya tentang dia. Selfish la memang layak kena maki. If segala pun ejas untuk dia mmg i buh antifreeze dalam kopi 
Kalau nak balik lewat jagan angkut I sekali jam 2 pagi baru nak balik itu memanggg special punya kunghajo sis. Ingat i muse ke
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ramaramu replied at 26-6-2020 01:11 PM
alpha male ni tak boleh di kongkong sis.. kena lepaskan dia free.. baru dia datang balik.. kalau y ...
I boleh tapi takkan semua nak adjust untuk dia
Datang lewat masa dating. Iols 20 minit dah sampai even 1.5jam sebelum dah start prepare. Sebab kita hargai masa dia yg busy plus kita pun busy
Thats why i said semuanya tentang dia. Selfish la memang layak kena maki. If segala pun ejas untuk dia mmg i buh antifreeze dalam kopi
Kalau nak balik lewat jagan angkut I sekali jam 2 pagi baru nak balik itu memanggg special punya kunghajo sis. Ingat i muse ke
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It’s ok if ur man is an alpha male. No wrongs in that. As long as he treats u with respect, gives u freedom & choices to make, understand ur needs & feelings, itu pon sudah cukup. I suka alpha male coz i rasa protected, not to say that i’m weak. I considered myself as an alpha female gak since i anak sulung, dah biasa independent & lasak. So bila kawin with an alpha male, i rasa spt dimanjakan, & never felt under submission. This is just my personal view. I hope ramai alpha male kt luar sana tu jenis yg angkat darjat isteri, bukan jadikan isteri sbg khadam. |
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Edited by Earkix94 at 26-6-2020 03:08 PM
Nasihat saya tak perlulah terlalu dengar cakap kawan-kawan. Ada beza hidup yang dipimpin dengan hidup yang dikongkong. Alpha female ni bagusnya dekat tempat kerja. Seharian dah penat kawal kuasa dekat pejabat, takkan balik rumah pun kena kawal suami pula. Selagi mana alpha male ni pandai memimpin dan membuat keputusan, rasanya takde apa-apa masalah.
Alpha female ni adalah perempuan yang ada strong financial backup dan high position in company, tapi bila dah berkahwin nanti mesti nak lelaki yang ada ciri pemimpin terbaik. Lagipun perempuan ada naluri untuk dipimpin oleh lelaki sehingga ke jannah gitunya. Cukuplah perempuan ni jadi alpha female dekat luar rumah. Dalam rumah nanti boleh jadi sweet sweet gitu.
Alpha female aku tak kisah, tapi jangan jadi western feminist pula, itu naya namanya. |
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kalau macam ni bukan alpha male.. ni selfish attitude problem sis
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nicely said! true as long as we still feel like ourselves there's nothing wrong with it..
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 26-6-2020 11:30 AM
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