Sephiroth's Little Corner ... 3rd one.

fleurzsa

Im not working at any book...  eventhough my relatives always asked me to write a book(educational book).  They r publisher . I never finished anything I wrote he he he

Actually a few people r arguing about the cover.

The funny thing is someone said the girl was reminded his/her of me ha ha ha...

How about u? Do u like to be a writer someday?

Ur name will be known even when u pass away.

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
Im not working at any book...  eventhough my relatives always asked me to write a book(educational book).  They r publisher . I never finished anything I wrote he he he

Interesting ... a friend of mine loves to write, did a few fanfics on the internet last time. He asked me whether I knew any publisher or not, considering I always meet people here and there.

Maybe you should read more or play games more before writing something. Lack of proper storyline is main reasons why a project always stops halfway, according to my friend.

Actually a few people r arguing about the cover.
The funny thing is someone said the girl was reminded his/her of me ha ha ha...

Yeah, does seems to fit you, if compared to real photo which you posted before. First impression I got looking at your face was ... you seems to be mentally or spiritually tired, like someone looking for a place to sit and rest.

Then again, it is not my business. I have been told off like that whenever I get too close to people's dark (naught perhaps :cak: ) secrets.

How about u? Do u like to be a writer someday?
Ur name will be known even when u pass away.

Nay ... no, thanks. I don't like drawing attention to myself. Sometimes, it can't be helped.

And besides, what is the use of people remembering your name when you die? Your name is not yours, it is given by your parents. It is superficial. Having pride in something like a name is, for me, is useless.

fleurzsa

A few years ago a friend asked me to hand up his novel for my cousins to look. After sometimes... when I asked them... they didnt know where they put the book... Hmmm maybe they didn抰 interested.  I felt bad toward my friend.... so I dont want to give ur friend any hope like him.

I think someday I will write book about educational or information... maybe something like art or storybook for students.  After I will really good in writing and in English.

I gave u the link to this new publisher... Actually they have Chinese member (the one who design the cover).

http://neohikayat.blogspot.com

He he he... u right...I really tired when the pic was taken.  But was enjoying the sight seeings too.

Yeah.. u have good point... that its useless having pride to something like name.

U know what....

Knowledge is a global thing.  I learnt lots of good ideas or thinking from my nonmuslim friends.

I have a female Chinese friend who sends me sms with good or funny words at least one time a week.  She is really a good person.

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
A few years ago a friend asked me to hand up his novel for my cousins to look. After sometimes... when I asked them... they didnt know where they put the book... Hmmm maybe they didn抰 interested.  I felt bad toward my friend.... so I dont want to give ur friend any hope like him.

I think someday I will write book about educational or information... maybe something like art or storybook for students.  After I will really good in writing and in English.

OK ... Understood.

I gave u the link to this new publisher... Actually they have Chinese member (the one who design the cover).

http://neohikayat.blogspot.com

Thanks.

He he he... u right...I really tired when the pic was taken.  But was enjoying the sight seeings too.

Don't get too exhausted, otherwise, no use sight-seeing.

Yeah.. u have good point... that its useless having pride to something like name.

Don't carry too much baggage. carry only what you need.

U know what....

Knowledge is a global thing.  I learnt lots of good ideas or thinking from my nonmuslim friends.

Hehehehe ... you asking for more free councelling from your Muslim friends that statement, eh? :cak:

I have a female Chinese friend who sends me sms with good or funny words at least one time a week.  She is really a good person.

Make sure you send something back, no use having one way communications.

fleurzsa

He he he ... I have many friends and people around who apply Islam as way of life. Some of them r ustaz and ustazah (teaching Islam).  Only they choose other more important things to do than surf the internet.

Internet is only my hobby. As a woman this is a good hobby.  I can stay at home and be a good muslimah.

I accept any councelling from any people wheather from Muslim or not.

Ha ha ha .. many times I forgot to reply my friend sms.  But she understand me. I try not to forget after this. Thanks

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
He he he ... I have many friends and people around who apply Islam as way of life. Some of them r ustaz and ustazah (teaching Islam).  Only they choose other more important things to do than surf the internet.

Then your "friends" are idiots. ;)

Compared to 10 years ago (1995), the number of teenage Muslims who comes online (to Internet) is more today. If you see Internet Cafes, you will know that over 60% of people there are Muslims between the age of 12 ~ 21 and above.

Tell me something ... WHAT is more important for your ustaz and ustazah friends than reaching out and educating the teenagers about your own religion?

Hmph ... they (or you for that matter) don't need to answer that question now, but when time comes, they WILL be answerable. ;)

Internet is only my hobby. As a woman this is a good hobby.  I can stay at home and be a good muslimah.

Don't browse anything bad. :cak: Also, find some nice boyfriend.

I accept any councelling from any people wheather from Muslim or not.

For me, I don't bother with anyone's councels if it doesn't make sense. Most time, people attend to councel us in order to hide their own fears.

Ha ha ha .. many times I forgot to reply my friend sms.  But she understand me. I try not to forget after this. Thanks

OK.

fleurzsa

Internet or technology r not the only thing that important in life.

And people r not similar in thinking and they do things in many differents way.

My special man is studying and work part time in internet cafe (His dad would be angry if know he has a job).

He is using internet to read news, football informations and for study references.  Of course, to communicate with me.  Not interested in forum and what I do in the forum then.

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
Internet or technology r not the only thing that important in life.

Not important but useful. That is what Dr. Mahathir thought when he introduce the Internet to Malaysia back in 1990s, thinking Malaysian could benefit from the technology present on the Net instead of relying on foreigners.

And people r not similar in thinking and they do things in many differents way.

Maybe because many so-called "holymen" and "teachers" are nothing more than heaven-chasing people who have keen interest in chasing after a better afterlife than serving God. ;)

My special man is studying and work part time in internet cafe (His dad would be angry if know he has a job).

Special man? :cak:
Anyway, having part-time job is not a bad things. I had worked various jobs when I was in school also.

He is using internet to read news, football informations and for study references.  Of course, to communicate with me.  Not interested in forum and what I do in the forum then.

He couldn't happen to be that guy in your avatar, could he?

fleurzsa

Now Tun Mahathir made noise about the bad influences of unmorality in the internet.

The man in the avatar is a brother.

:hmm wonder if u will be happy in life without nice woman beside u. I heard many cases about religous worship people that have sex scandals in secret.

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
Now Tun Mahathir made noise about the bad influences of unmorality in the internet.

That is because what Tun Mahathir thought and what Malaysians (Muslim, Indian and Chinese) doing now is different.

During 1980s when Malaysia is growing and in need of technology Know-Hows, all they can do is rely on US and UK but what they get was 3rd or 4th rate technology, some outdated by 20 years. Currently, US and UK still shipping outdated products like fertilizers which was banned in their own countries to rural states in Africa.

Japan was growing country but it is little it could continue to offer at that time. It had to emphazise its own technology by trial and error and whatever Japan could spare, was brought to Malaysia and used to establish enterprises like HICOM, Modernas and Proton.

So, Tun Mahathir thought of alternative way - the Internet which was design in late 1970s as communication device between Universities in US and UK. Tun Mahathir probably thought if Malaysian have access to the source of knowledge, they could use that instead of relying on US and UK directly.

However, it is not Tun Mahathir's fault that porn industry strive on the Internet as well, as the E-Commerce taught up. Products is sold online and Porn is just another product in the West.

In late 1980s ~ early 1990s, Malaysian Government tried to educate Malays in ways of Islam, but then again, many Ustaz and Ustases are like your friends, wait for people to come and approach them, instead of going out and educating the public.

So in the end, all the government managed to do is erase Malays' identity and increase chance for social problems such as piracy, pornagraphy, internet abuse and probably terrorism as well.

And now, Tun Mahathir seems to be reckless in his twilight days, wondering whether all this problems doing to come back to haunt him in the afterlife.

The man in the avatar is a brother.

Doesn't Muslim girls called their special ones "Abang" (brother) also? :cak:
Kind of reminds me of a nutcase in Religion section who kept calling me bro also ... <_<

I wonder if u will be happy in life without nice woman beside u. I heard many cases about religous worship people that have sex scandals in secret.

To have sexual urges is normal - humans (religious or not) have them.
To indulge in sexual activites, influence by your urge is not normal and sin.

Many people failed to stop themselves from indulging in sexual activites because they cannot control their urges or release it in proper ways.

This sort of urges will increase when you reach puberty (15) and continue till you reach some age of 35 ~ 40 years old. So, if I can control myself till about 40 (assuming of course I live that long), then I could properly devotee myself to God. :pray:

If you see your own scriptures, you will see that most prophets starts their activities at or after age of 40 (Moses, Abraham ... yeah, I know he was married, and Muhammad. Jesus was a different case because early age of his life is unknown). NO, I have NO interest in becoming a prophet.

But then again, if God wants me to marry OR if I do find someone special, maybe ... just MAYBE I settle down.

Besides, define a defination of a nice woman. :cak:

fleurzsa

Tun Mahathis was facing a lot of challenges but he seems never lose the battles. Ironically, he carried Malaysia through to the new era. But as a human being, nobody is perfect.  Not Tun Mahathir and not all Malaysians.

Lets forget about my special man.... he exist in real life. I dont think he  appreciate me talking about him to stranger.

In ur case...

Nice is in the eyes of beholder... U look wise enough to give credit to any woman.

Yeah... we must be strong to control ourselves in anything we do, not just sex.

A female chinese  friend said...

We need 20% IQ and 80% EQ to be a success person in life.

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
Tun Mahathis was facing a lot of challenges but he seems never lose the battles. Ironically, he carried Malaysia through to the new era. But as a human being, nobody is perfect.  Not Tun Mahathir and not all Malaysians.

Agreed.

Lets forget about my special man.... he exist in real life. I dont think he  appreciate me talking about him to stranger.

OK ... ;)

In ur case...

Nice is in the eyes of beholder... U look wise enough to give credit to any woman.

Or man ... you seems to have forgotten that I could be a woman also. :cak:

Yeah... we must be strong to control ourselves in anything we do, not just sex.

A female chinese  friend said...
We need 20% IQ and 80% EQ to be a success person in life.

What's EQ? :stp:

fleurzsa

EQ means emotional quotient

Same as emotional intelligence

1 more thing...

I like u better if u r a woman... then maybe we can be real friend..

[ Last edited by fleurzsa on 16-6-2005 at 02:04 PM ]

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
EQ means emotional quotient
Same as emotional intelligence

So, explain to me why anyone needs such a high degree of Emotion Intelligence?

To me, having basis emotions like Love, Compassion etc is enough. I have problem with others, especially anger since my anger is something which I inherited from my pervious existence (I believe).

1 more thing...

I like u better if u r a woman... then maybe we can be real friend..

In every Man, there is a little woman inside and vice versa. Love both, then only you will know a true person.

You won't feel down if I overshadow you in feminin way? :cak:
PS : I will kill the first person who tries to "meminang" me here. <_<

fleurzsa

Emotional intelligence is about how a person handle him/herself, be hardworking, self motivation, high spirit etc.  How a person cope failness, managing emotion and heart, control desire etc.  Anything which related to feeling.

Then the person able to arrange any situation and take care stress so it could not pralyse her/his ability to think. These r very important aspects in successful.

Ha ha ha... u really not recognize me yet...

FYI... I like to live in comfortable...  so I try to make other peoples comfortable being with me.

Of course, feel down or jealous r not a good attitude in life.

I lead my own way of life.  Rich and famous not my style....

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
Emotional intelligence is about how a person handle him/herself, be hardworking, self motivation, high spirit etc.  How a person cope failness, managing emotion and heart, control desire etc.  Anything which related to feeling.

Then the person able to arrange any situation and take care stress so it could not pralyse her/his ability to think. These r very important aspects in successful.

Really? :stp:
And how exactly do you attend to managed that?

Ha ha ha... u really not recognize me yet...
;) It is you who do not recognize yourself.

FYI... I like to live in comfortable...  so I try to make other peoples comfortable being with me.

I don't think such actions (making others feel comfortable with you) is a wise one. If there is 100 people in your life, you cannot possibly make everyone comfortable with you, UNLESS you lead a life wearing a mask (kepura-puraan).

Of course, feel down or jealous r not a good attitude in life.
I lead my own way of life.  Rich and famous not my style....

You feel down or jealous sometimes? :cak:
Those feelings usually associate recognition of need to accomplish something but not capable of doing it because of physical, mental or spiritual deficiencies.

fleurzsa

U can refer this EQ thing on Mayer and Salovey.  EQ concept was model by them.

What I know is a person who have emotionally intelligent is skilled in 4 areas: identifying emotions, using emotions, understanding emotions and regulating emotions.

I dont have to wear mask to make other people comfortable with me.  I just being myself and try my best to accept others as they r.

Some people like me, some people dont.  I accept their choice.  No big deal.

Eg. I accept u as nonmuslim (as im not sure what ur religion is).  As a matured person who knows what right or wrong.

All human beings feel down and jealous sometimes. We all r not perfect. When its not a good attitude, I not take it as big thing in life.

U know what...

Now, Im doing research about gay people... he he he.. I do it just to understand a person problem. Just to help him.

I tell u this bcz maybe u have any idea about this thing.  U seem an open minded person.

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
U can refer this EQ thing on Mayer and Salovey.  EQ concept was model by them.
Who?

What I know is a person who have emotionally intelligent is skilled in 4 areas: identifying emotions, using emotions, understanding emotions and regulating emotions.

OK ...

I dont have to wear mask to make other people comfortable with me.  I just being myself and try my best to accept others as they r.

Some people like me, some people dont.  I accept their choice.  No big deal.
OK ... as long as you are happy.

Eg. I accept u as nonmuslim (as im not sure what ur religion is).  As a matured person who knows what right or wrong.

Hmph ... you forgot the part of Me being Fair. Good must be deal with Goodness and Evil must be deal accordingly, no? :cak:

If you want fairness, you must first see whether you or your friends being fair to others. If they do not, don't blame others if they upset you or your friends.

All human beings feel down and jealous sometimes. We all r not perfect. When its not a good attitude, I not take it as big thing in life.

To me, jealous and feeling down means you feeling upset for not getting something and jealous when others do so. Two simple emotions which goes hand by hand with each others.

U know what...

Now, Im doing research about gay people... he he he.. I do it just to understand a person problem. Just to help him.

I tell u this bcz maybe u have any idea about this thing.  U seem an open minded person.

I'm not a Gay ... Thank You very much. O_o

I work with couple of those fellows, I don't see anything wrong with them, except they are more feminin in nature. I know a guy who likes to dress up like a girl to costume parties, even sing and dance. I don't see anything wrong with that.

There is nothing wrong about being Gay, it is when you indulge yourself sexually, when problem occurs.

Sephiroth

by fleurzsa
       
U can refer this EQ thing on Mayer and Salovey.  EQ concept was model by them.
Who?

What I know is a person who have emotionally intelligent is skilled in 4 areas: identifying emotions, using emotions, understanding emotions and regulating emotions.

OK ...

I dont have to wear mask to make other people comfortable with me.  I just being myself and try my best to accept others as they r.

Some people like me, some people dont.  I accept their choice.  No big deal.
OK ... as long as you are happy.

Eg. I accept u as nonmuslim (as im not sure what ur religion is).  As a matured person who knows what right or wrong.

Hmph ... you forgot the part of Me being Fair. Good must be deal with Goodness and Evil must be deal accordingly, no? :cak:

If you want fairness, you must first see whether you or your friends being fair to others. If they do not, don't blame others if they upset you or your friends.

All human beings feel down and jealous sometimes. We all r not perfect. When its not a good attitude, I not take it as big thing in life.

To me, jealous and feeling down means you feeling upset for not getting something and jealous when others do so. Two simple emotions which goes hand by hand with each others.

U know what...

Now, Im doing research about gay people... he he he.. I do it just to understand a person problem. Just to help him.

I tell u this bcz maybe u have any idea about this thing.  U seem an open minded person.

I'm not a Gay ... Thank You very much. O_o

I work with couple of those fellows, I don't see anything wrong with them, except they are more feminin in nature. I know a guy who likes to dress up like a girl to costume parties, even sing and dance. I don't see anything wrong with that.

There is nothing wrong about being Gay, it is when you indulge yourself sexually, when problem occurs.

fleurzsa

Today no important topic come into my mind.

Blank paper...;)