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Buku PARENTING yang anda baca.

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 Author| Post time 18-5-2006 12:38 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by tina^^ at 17-5-2006 02:57 PM



hehe..no prob kak fie..

kak fie ader tak books yg boleh rekemen dkt sayer utk further enhancement...boleh sayer carik. i believe kak fie nie boleh jadik khutubkhannah nie..ehehehe
my bo ...


Tina memang nak cari buku  tentang developmental stimulation ke?  
Akak ada a few books tapi tak tahu yang mana patut recommend....
Akak  banyak baca buku2 by Glenn Doman.
Walaupun tak 100% pro Glenn Doman...tapi just to get basic idea.  Akak modify sendiri ikut kesesuaian dengan anak.  (chewah...selamber je....:bgrin.  Not necessarily applicable to all.

Ini list of buku-buku Glenn Doman..
    * How Smart Is Your Baby - Develop and Nurture Your Newborn's Full Potential
    * How To Teach Your Baby To Be Physically Superb: From Birth To Age Six; The Gentle Revolution
    * How To Teach Your Baby Math: The Gentle Revolution
    * How To Teach Your Baby To Read: The Gentle Revolution
    * How To Multiply Your Baby's Intelligence (Gentle Revolution)
    * How To Give Your Baby Encyclopedic Knowledge: More Gentle Revolution (Gentle Revolution (Gentle Revolution Press))

Selain dari tu boleh jugak cari buku-buku tentang creative play/learn through play.

Banyak kat kedai tu...just flip through..lepas tu pilih regime yang sesuai dengan  Tina dan baby Muiz. OK?


Lupa pulak....

Kalau rajin bacalah jugak writings/work by HOWARD GARDNER - well known for his theory of multiple intelligence.

"Howard Gardner's `Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences' is a fascinating book that helps to explain how and why different people seem to learn in different ways and possess different skills and talents. Gardner's main thesis throughout the text is that there is not one thing called intelligence, but rather several different types of intelligence that work together (or, sometimes, play together) inside each person's overall intellectual development and structure."

Ikut gardner, ada tujuh intelligence yang kita kena stimulate.

Linguistic
Logical-mathematical
Musical
Bodily kinesthetic
Spatial
interpersonal
Intrapersonal

[ Last edited by  KakFie at 18-5-2006 12:53 AM ]
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Post time 18-5-2006 07:37 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by KakFie at 18-5-2006 12:38 AM


Tina memang nak cari buku  tentang developmental stimulation ke?  
Akak ada a few books tapi tak tahu yang mana patut recommend....
Akak  banyak baca buku2 by Glenn Doman.
Walaupun tak 100%  ...



menarik tue kak fie...thx a lot...akan ku lepak di kedai buku weekend nie......anak tido dalam stroller, mak baca buku.... :lol

kak fie, selepas baca byk2 buku tue, boleh kak fie share tak, perkembangan anak kak fie mcm mana..based on theory2 yg derang ajo dalam buku tue......plus yg kak fie dah modified sdirik ikot kesesuaian anak.....
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 Author| Post time 18-5-2006 08:17 AM | Show all posts
[quote]Originally posted by tina^^ at 18-5-2006 07:37 AM



menarik tue kak fie...thx a lot...akan ku lepak di kedai buku weekend nie......anak tido dalam stroller, mak baca buku.... :lol

kak fie, selepas baca byk2 buku tue, boleh kak fie share tak ... [/quote

Bestnya lepak kat kedai buku...

By and large, diorang punya response/acceptance  to all the stimulations  varies.  One method doesnt fit all.  
Memang tak boleh expect tinggi sangat untuk anak-anak bertindakbalas macam dalam buku.
Tapi memang kena stimulate...kalau tidak kita tak tahu how far their potential is.  Anak-anak memang uniquely akan ada certain areas yang kita kena push.
Satu perkara kena ingat stop expecting them to be perfect, because they will never be.  Nobody will.

Akak pun banyak benda jugak tak buat sebenarnya....:nyorok:

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Post time 18-5-2006 09:03 AM | Show all posts

Reply #41 KakFie's post

anak kite le kot nak pakai glenn doman tak berjaya nih..hahahaha...he wants to learn what he want...n dia byk blaja naturally secara tak sengaja..nak pakai stail saper ek kakfie?
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 Author| Post time 18-5-2006 09:51 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by honeybee1802 at 18-5-2006 09:03 AM
anak kite le kot nak pakai glenn doman tak berjaya nih..hahahaha...he wants to learn what he want...n dia byk blaja naturally secara tak sengaja..nak pakai stail saper ek kakfie?


heh..heh....anak akak pun ada yang tak berjaya...itu yang kena modify ikut mood anak tu.

Ikut je lah cara anak honey...tak yah rigid sangat. Tak ramai budak yang boleh sit still dengar "lecture"
Come up with your own style...tailor made to suit you child.  Itu lagi baik.  Kalau kita dah banyak membaca insyAllah kita tahu which area  to tackle, apa yang kita patut concern...jadi tak lah blur sangat sampai akhirnya apa pun tak dibuat untuk bantu anak.  Betul tak?

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Post time 18-5-2006 04:32 PM | Show all posts
glen doman..sayer baruuuu nie ajek dengar pasal dier...

saper2 boleh intor kan?? kak fie lah as tuan rumah...ehehe

nie adek beradek miriam stoppard ker?
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Post time 18-5-2006 04:41 PM | Show all posts
baca buku glen doman gak, buat gak senaman yang di ajar dalam buku tu.

Tapi ini ada satu buku simple tapi quite good written by Barbara C.Unell and Jerry L. Wyckorff.

20 teachable virtues...
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Post time 18-5-2006 04:51 PM | Show all posts

Reply #47 Sweetmama's post

aiya..mama..teach me la..sharing2..don't have time to read parenting books nowadays..fuh...
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 Author| Post time 18-5-2006 05:04 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by tina^^ at 18-5-2006 04:32 PM
glen doman..sayer baruuuu nie ajek dengar pasal dier...

saper2 boleh intor kan?? kak fie lah as tuan rumah...ehehe

nie adek beradek miriam stoppard ker?


aiikk...dah tukar avatar rupanya tina...

ha..ah..tina...adik beradik lain mak lain bapak....
:bgrin:

nak " intor" camana tu?
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 Author| Post time 18-5-2006 05:06 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Sweetmama at 18-5-2006 04:41 PM
baca buku glen doman gak, buat gak senaman yang di ajar dalam buku tu.

Tapi ini ada satu buku simple tapi quite good written by Barbara C.Unell and Jerry L. Wyckorff.

20 teachable virtues...


sharelah contentnya mama....
Boleh tumpang sekaki jugak...
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Post time 5-6-2006 09:55 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Iman_Baby at 12-4-2006 11:26 PM
Buku yg Iman paling suka n mmg bawa kemana...

" Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care" by Benjamin Spock

Dlm ni byk section n divided into topics... cth..

Section 1 - Your child, age  ...


Yes,
kuntum pun suka baca buku  " Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care" by Benjamin Spock
i've ordered by internet (MPH)..

memang banyak ilmu yang kita dapat dari buku ni...
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 Author| Post time 14-6-2006 12:21 AM | Show all posts

Children Are From Heaven

Baru habis baca buku ni untuk kali ketiga.  Beli 3 years ago...dah lupa pulak content dia.



Ditulis oleh John Gray, author Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.

Approach dia menarik, layout pun ok.

Main point dia :

It's okay to be different
It's okey to make mistakes
It's okay to express negative emotions
It's okay to want more
It's okay to say no
BUT REMEMBER MOM AND DAD ARE THE BOSSES  :pmuka:


Antara quotes dalam buku ni :

You cant give children more freedom unless you have the skills to restrain them so that they behave in an orderly manner

Parents have much greater influence on their children than does the TV

Caring motivates parents to be involved, interested, and affected by children's experiences of life

Children need strong parents who know what is best, they dont need more choices.

If parents are unable to set reasonable limits, children will ask for what is unreasonable.

Dan banyak lagi.  Kalau nak list down semua  boleh bukak satu thread baru pulak nanti...heh..heh...:bgrin:
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Post time 14-6-2006 08:55 AM | Show all posts
kak fie..menariknyer buku tue....

esp part yg children do not need more choices....interesting! :cak:

ceritalah lagik kat sini kak fie
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Post time 14-6-2006 08:56 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by kuntum85 at 5-6-2006 09:55 AM


Yes,
kuntum pun suka baca buku  " Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care" by Benjamin Spock
i've ordered by internet (MPH)..

memang banyak ilmu yang kita dapat dari buku ni...



i pon ader buku nie, tp tak sempat2 nak baca sampai habes...pick mana2 yg related ajek...:kant:
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 Author| Post time 15-6-2006 12:02 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by tina^^ at 14-6-2006 08:55 AM
kak fie..menariknyer buku tue....

esp part yg children do not need more choices....interesting! :cak:

ceritalah lagik kat sini kak fie


tentang children do not need more choices tu maksudnya lebih kurang : kalau kita bagi terlalu banyak choices serupa jugak macam bagi terlalu banyak power pada diorang dan melemahkan power kita sebagai boss.  Jadi untuk umur 9 tahun kebawah tak payahlah bagi banyak sangat pilihan. Banyak sangat choices atau freedom ni akan create more anxiety sedangkan budak-budak  umur tu belum bersedia lagi untuk pikul.  Jadi kita sebagai parents kenalah lebih peka dengan perasaan, kehendak,keperluan dan cara anak-anak kita supaya kita tahu apa yang terbaik buat anak-anak kecil tu.  Tapi at the same time kita dengar jugak pendapat diorang dan be flexible.  Apa pun kita still boss.

Kalau dipikirkan betul jugak...kita orang dewasa ni pun kalau ada banyak pilihan selallunya kita jadi lebih confuse.  Akak selalu jadi cam tu.  Banyak situasi akak wish I dont have that many choices sebab lagi senang nak buat keputusan.  Tak tahulah orang lain mcm mana.
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Post time 15-6-2006 06:52 PM | Show all posts
miriam stoppard is good. i would recommend everyone to get that book. hmmm buku apa lagi? normally we share experience je amongst mothers. i selalu gi mum's group & playgroup... & masuk australian multiple birth punya association. so we always give support to one another. and boleh la the kids interact & play together-gether.......
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 Author| Post time 16-6-2006 08:23 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by spidernfly at 15-6-2006 06:52 PM
miriam stoppard is good. i would recommend everyone to get that book. hmmm buku apa lagi? normally we share experience je amongst mothers. i selalu gi mum's group & playgroup... & masuk aus ...


you kat Australia ya?  Yup should take advantage of all those.

Satu benda yang akak miss tentang downunder, the salvation army shop...Akak banyak beli good parenting/child development book kat situ at very low prices.   Itu yang menambahkan lagi koleksi buku-buku kat rumah.
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Post time 16-6-2006 08:27 AM | Show all posts

Reply #57 KakFie's post

i selalu derma barang kat SAVO if i malas nak jual on eBay. tak pernah pulak beli barang from there tho. but mmg books here are soooo cheap. every month musti beli buku. tak kira la buku budak ke, my book ke, my hubby's book ke....
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 Author| Post time 16-6-2006 08:33 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by spidernfly at 16-6-2006 08:27 AM
i selalu derma barang kat SAVO if i malas nak jual on eBay. tak pernah pulak beli barang from there tho. but mmg books here are soooo cheap. every month musti beli buku. tak kira la buku budak ke,  ...


Akak pun beli buku je kat situ.  Barang lain tak pernah beli.  My husband pulak gila novels.  Bila balik dari sana buku je berkotak-kotak.
So how long have you been there?
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Post time 16-6-2006 08:40 AM | Show all posts

Reply #59 KakFie's post

nak masuk 2 yrs.... but we get to go back to m'sia every 6months (or otherwise we can exchange the ticket to go elsewhere) where were you staying in oz dulu?
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