Issue - Terlalu Ingin Kurus - Anorexia (especially Young Girls)-

dexa

pada saya eating disorder ni satu perkara yang bukan boleh buat
main2 - dan memang saya nak sentuh lama dah hal ni -
just as  ramainya obese  kat malaysia ni ramai juga sebenarnya
yang anorexic --


yang anorexic - prone to bingeing happened to many young girls
actually   kerana obsessed nak terlalu kurus  kerana pada mereka
kalau kurus tu - boleh jadi macam model2 yang ada di catwalk
in fashion magazines -

malangnya lagi - kebanyakkan eating disorder ni - kadang2 parents kat
rumah pun tak perasan perkara ni - sebab anak anak remaja depa
buat secara senyap senyap  ---

budak2 perempuan (budak lelaki stats is low in this disease) akan
makan macam tak pernah jumpa food - (sebab depa tak makan
for like 2-3 days just small amount of fruit etc)--  then rasa guilty
then akan throw up kat bilik air --  this is a very serious disease
dan memang ramai dah yang nak kurus yang berbuat begini --
(eating disorder)

this is clearly psychological problem and needs to see a counsellor
kerana walau pun mereka dah kurus macam lidi still kata depa gemok
macam gajah --  kerana mental mereka tak nampak hakikat tu --

bila dah sampai tahap bingeing their food -- this is very serious problem
cuz they can die from it
gigi depa akan rosak, organ dalaman akan rosak -
and they just like a living skeleton --

pada sesiapa yang ada kawan or siblings or themselves ada masalah ini
kurus tersangat-sangat dan bingeing food - kerana rasa guilty makan
terlalu banyak - please advise to seek counsellor and get help -

saya akan post few articles about it later on cuz this is very important issue nowadays
as well -  kerana dah terlalu ramai young girls in malaysia  ada satu fantasy
nak kurus sangat  sampai ke tahap extreme --

any input from forum members for our discussion would be fantastic -
we learn and write as we go through the post ---
there's so much to write about it  but as usual i need to stop making
too long post -- and try to split 'em --   
(thanks for the advise from mod muntz and acehand) -

* teringat kata ustaz fauzi mustapha dalam rancangan al-zikrar--
kita tak mahu perempuan 3G (gempal, gebu, gemok)
tapi  kita juga tak mahu perempuan 3K -(kurus, keding, tak ingat dah -..)
tapi nak 3S - ( sexy, sweet, slim)  ishh macam macam ..

[ Last edited by  dexa at 16-10-2007 01:11 AM ]

nazurah

ni macam kawan aku la...yg aku citer kat thread lg satu tu... dia x mkn seminggu... ala2 alas perut ngn susu n biskut jek. hujungnya dok spital seminggu.

aku ada plan diet aku sendiri tp aku x cadangkan pada org lain. kalo badan aku naik... aku akan puasa sunat during weekdays and tak sentuh nasi langsung.

org pompuan obses nk kurus ni pun psl lelaki... sbb kalo kami2 ni tembun skit jek nnt takut cik abang jeling org keding. tp sorg kwn lelaki aku pnah cakap " yg kurus sedap dipandang, yg gebu sedap dipegang..."

dexa

nazurah rasa dia ni anorexic ka?
i mean  kalau u tanya dia -
dia kata dia gomok sangat
dan tak nak makan -
and badan kurus melidi
tapi dia kata dia gomok gedempol?

nazurah

taklah dex... badan dia gebusss
so dia tensen sik org kata dia gebus jek...dia amik jalan pintas utk kurus... pada mata aku, ok jek figure dia...cuma  some part tu mmg gebus la...

ischae

i used to be a bulimic :nyorok:

dlu slalu satisfy my hunger mkn byk2

then gag gag n puke smpai keluar sumer yg aku mkn

i'm  a small, petit, n never a fat girl

tp biler my frens said "wah tembamnyer ko skrg"

"ko dh gemok ler etc"

hence come the stupid actions .. :nyorok:

now dh okey .. my advice is

jgn fikir sgt ape org ckp psl about our physical .. heh

glump

payah nk jumpa org yg di dedahkan dgn cara pemakanan yg betul dari kecil so dah besar senang di pengaruhi oleh kawan2 & iklan. Utk kurus dah jadi issue komersil ...fashion ,makanan kesihatan() malah byk kelinik yg menawarkan cara utk kurus tak termasuk dgn salon & beli sendiri ubat kat farmasi  dgn cara surf dr internet.
ramai wanita teruja nak kurus sbb fashion i.e saiz baju sekarang makin mengecik ala leh kongsi ngan anak & mak.

aurora_belle

Org selalu ckp belle ni diet. Padahal makan adalah kegiatan kegemaranku tapi org dok selalu kata "Diet ke?" walhal baru lps melantak sepinggan nasi. But i'm still kurus!!! Sedih betul sbb takde komen lain "Eh lepernya" Geram betul :@ :@ :@

Tapi wat de hek lah kan, i dont snack unneccessarily, but make sure i take breakfast lunch and dinner (sometimes). Belle kurus pun bukan kurus tak sihat. So, to hell with others!!! Miahahaha

Sesi lepas geram

Nicole

sape yg x nak makan tu (ala2 nak jaga makan) mmg rugilah .... masa ni lah nak menikmati makanan

aku sebat je apa yg ade depan mata ... janji halal

fairy_hobbit

Originally posted by dexa at 24-6-2007 03:00 PM

kalau ada forum members yang rasa thread ni masuk ke mana2 thread
please pm me ye - (i also asked mod muntz already)

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article dlm the star today ker? i dont like some comments in that article.... mcm discriminatory towards org2 kurus. to hell with it. kalau nak kurus, sukati la... as long as sihat.  yg ikut nafsu sgt sampai sekat makan tu kenapa....  i dont like komen2 yg suka melabel org2 kurus ni. some ppl mmg semulajadi dah kurus. so be it - size 0 or watever kalau dah semulajadi size 0 takkan due to peer pressure nak gemukkan badan plak.

all in all - they should not potray that being thin is a bad thing or is an unnatural thing. what should be stressed upon is attempting to be thin by starving urself to death or by taking ntah apa2 punya suplement tu is a bad, unnatural thing.

[ Last edited by  fairy_hobbit at 24-6-2007 07:54 PM ]

fairy_hobbit

Originally posted by Nicole at 24-6-2007 06:15 PM
sape yg x nak makan tu (ala2 nak jaga makan) mmg rugilah .... masa ni lah nak menikmati makanan

aku sebat je apa yg ade depan mata ... janji halal

i used to be like you coz aku jenis tak boleh gain weight altho melantak banyak2 until doctor bgtau aku punya cholestrol level dah jadi high giler. after that nak tak nak, terpaksa gak jaga mkn, mkn food yg healthy jer yg tak menaikkan cholestrol level..

raven

nak kena put the blame kat masyarakat ker..?
sebab agak sinonim yg kurus itu dipandang lebih menarik berbanding yg tak kurus..?
yg kurus dipuji, yg tak kurus dikeji..

mungkin menjurus kepada pentingnya 'pandangan' masyarakat itu berbanding tahap kesihatan individu..
maka bagi mereka yg dlm kategori kurus tu masih tidak percaya bahawa mereka itu kurus..
mmg bukan satu senario yg memeranjatkan..

ada sorang kawan forum aku..
(sesapa yg terasa tu sori ekk..)
dia mmg dah kurus..
dengan ketinggian lebih kurang 5'7", dan mempunyai berat 42kg..
dia masih takut utk 'makan' betul2..
dan sentiasa menjaga diet nya hingga kini..

itmustbethem

hhuhu..im a bullimic. still dont know how to seek help

dexa

saya rasa bukan discriminate pada orang2 kurus
tapi yang saya tekankan adalah ---
extreme behavour turned to be a disease --

kalau memang kurus and HEALTHY dan tak ada
symptom anorexic or  anorexic bulimic  then they
got no problem --  maintain good health  and good body -

the one with problem is one who is already thin -
but still think she is very fat  and bingeing and throw up

then thats clearly a sickness

AND -- those are what's happening lots in young girls nowadays --

dexa

Originally posted by itmustbethem at 24-6-2007 08:15 PM
hhuhu..im a bullimic. still dont know how to seek help

ohhh   i am sorry to hear this....
however i like to know --
why did you think u are bullimic though?
and do your family know about this?

dexa

NURMIMIE

ramai artis atau bukan artis di malaysia nih yang nak kurus then amik syabu..

nih penangan nak kurus melampau ler jugak nih kan?

cantik ker kalau dah kurus melampau tuh? muka pun nampak cepat tua jer..

mahathirGX

Originally posted by NURMIMIE at 24-6-2007 09:45 PM
ramai artis atau bukan artis di malaysia nih yang nak kurus then amik syabu..

nih penangan nak kurus melampau ler jugak nih kan?

cantik ker kalau dah kurus melampau tuh? muka pun nampak cep ...

Idola    artis   tu   penagih  dadah   kot....  mimie  ....   
maklum   ler   penagih   ni  kurus   belaka ...  

NURMIMIE

Originally posted by mahathirGX at 24-6-2007 10:50 PM

Idola    artis   tu   penagih  dadah   kot....  mimie  ....   
maklum   ler   penagih   ni  kurus   belaka ...  

ada gak penagih gumuk..

gumuk tak hengat..

dexa

Expert: One in 10 young girls are prone to eating disorders
By NG CHENG YEE

KUALA LUMPUR: Walk into any urban campus and there will be hordes of young girls who are slim and dressed in clothes that reveal their figure. Being thin is in and many are dying to be thin. They want to emulate weight-conscious celebrities like Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan.

And this is one of the reasons for a rising problem among young females - eating disorder. About 70% of them are not satisfied with the shape - and size - of their bodies.

In a study conducted by chartered psychologist Dr Hera Lukman, it was revealed that about one in 10 young urban female college students is prone to eating disorders in their quest for a perfect body shape.

Dr Lukman, a senior lecturer at the Faculty of Medicine at the International Medical University抯 (IMU) Community Medicine and Behavioural Sciences Section, conducted the recent survey among 578 female college students aged between 18 and 25 in the Klang Valley.  

Although there are signs that this problem is on the rise, there has been no study to determine the number, as those suffering from the problem rarely seek help voluntarily.

Nevertheless, Dr Lukman said studies have shown that the prevalence of eating disorders in Asian countries was comparable to that in the West, where between 1% and 4% of girls aged between 14 and 18 have an eating disorder.  

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ustaz fauzi ni...taste jgn memain....