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CNY: Zaman dah berubah. Golongan bujang tak perlu lagi terima ang pow
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CNY Rules: Is It OK Not To Give Ang Pow To Single Adults?
Story by Fernando Fong • Friday
Married couples traditionally give out ang pows to their parents, single adults and children during the Chinese New Year celebrations.
The ang pows, also known as lai see in Cantonese, are given out as tokens of good fortune and blessing.
Equally important, the giving of ang pows should be within the couple’s means and not become a source of financial burden.
Such considerations have given rise to the idea that ang pows need not be given to single adults.
Yes, giving money to someone already considered an adult can sometimes feel unfair.
Comedian Jason Leong gave his point of view, saying it doesn’t make sense if single adults are rich.
In a Facebook post, Leong indicated he would stop giving ang pows to all his friends who are single and rich.
When Age Matters
Married adults are not required to give them to older, unmarried relatives.
Ang pow should be given to unmarried, younger siblings or cousins, and on rare occasions, to older unmarried nephews.
For newlyweds, they can be exempted from giving ang pow in their first year of marriage.
However, the tradition differs depending on the Chinese subgroup, such as Hakka, Hokkien and Cantonese.
In some instances, the newlyweds are expected to give double the amount in their ang pow during the first year.
As for your spouse, it isn’t compulsory to gift them Chinese New Year red packets.
Still, you can always do it out of love and appreciation for one another.
The only time everyone is expected to give ang pows – regardless of marital status – is during wedding dinners.
The rule is a must, so much so that people invited to a wedding are said to receive a red bomb due to financial damage to the wallet.
sumber: therakyatpost.com/ |
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untunglah sapa yang kawen masa pkp, takyah bagi angpao ke diorang kena bagi gak ala2 versi m2u? |
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limesherbet replied at 24-1-2023 12:23 AM
cina tak bagi angpow kat unmarried adult maknanya kedekut bakhil or takde duit la tu....hub sis teta ...
4 angka utk attend chinese wedding ka? Byknya duit... |
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Tinot7 replied at 24-1-2023 03:37 AM
4 angka utk attend chinese wedding ka? Byknya duit...
Ko tak pernah attend Chinese wedding keww?
Kalopun ko pernah attend, ko sumbang red packet berapa ketul? RM50 -RM100 ko ghaser dah besar?
Ko ingat majlis dorang jenis macam majlis masyarakat kulit ko, bawah kemah ? RM30-RM50 dah kira besar?
Itewwler jenis macam ko yg tak bercampur masyarakat
Kera sumbang, bodoh macam biskut Khong Ghuan…
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org iteww bujang tak kawen lagi…obviously anak anak belum ada lagi….kita ambik contoh Tinot7 dah sign kontract takmo kawen sampai mati….so kalau selama hidupnya setiap hari raya kita…asyik kena jolok(green packet) pada mak ayah… anak Anak buah dan segala anak anak org yg bertandang kerumahnya….asyik dia yg kena huluq bila dia nak dihuluq? tanya anak jiran aku yg 3 tahun…
Kesian kheun? Dah ler tak berlaki?
Kahkahkahkahkahkah |
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eh apa ni, kata tradisi Cina harus dipertahankan. tang bagi duit tu boleh lak ubah tradisi |
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stingerpressor replied at 24-1-2023 04:28 AM
Ko tak pernah attend Chinese wedding keww?
Kalopun ko pernah attend, ko sumbang red packet berapa ...
Biskut Khong Guan ni amender? |
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domestobot replied at 24-1-2023 10:16 AM
eh apa ni, kata tradisi Cina harus dipertahankan. tang bagi duit tu boleh lak ubah tradisi
Jaman ekonomi tgh meleset, dekk.. |
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Ko ekonomi boom pun tetap asyik melecet...suker pakai tanga yg ketat ketat....air kurang dlm badan
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Memang Hari bebal ko kewww atau hari memang nak kena carut dgn aku?
Tak tahu nak google?
Puiiitttt
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stingerpressor replied at 24-1-2023 01:51 PM
Memang Hari bebal ko kewww atau hari memang nak kena carut dgn aku?
Tak tahu nak google?
Iols tau biskut hwa tai jahh.. maleh nak gugel. Dlm metro ni.. |
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stingerpressor replied at 24-1-2023 01:43 PM
Ko ekonomi boom pun tetap asyik melecet...suker pakai tanga yg ketat ketat....air kurang dlm badan ...
Iols tak paham.. |
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Tinot7 replied at 24-1-2023 09:57 PM
Iols tau biskut hwa tai jahh.. maleh nak gugel. Dlm metro ni..
Ubat utk maleh macam ko...mati je..
Kahkahkahkah |
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Tinot7 replied at 24-1-2023 09:58 PM
Iols tak paham..
Hence bodoh macam biskut khong guan.....
Kahkahkahkahkahkah |
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stingerpressor replied at 24-1-2023 11:39 PM
Hence bodoh macam biskut khong guan.....
Kahkahkahkahkahkah
Manak pun sama vodow.. sbb kalau bijak sgt, takde la dok merempan dlm porem..
Neologisme yg hang dok create ni mcm org sakit schizophrenia.. dah le asik habaq lagu anak jiran umo 3 tahun.. umpama delusion.. |
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Tinot7 replied at 25-1-2023 12:05 AM
Manak pun sama vodow.. sbb kalau bijak sgt, takde la dok merempan dlm porem..
Neologisme yg hang ...
Ko dan manak ko…
Kahkahkahkahkah |
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stingerpressor replied at 25-1-2023 12:09 AM
Ko dan manak ko…
Kahkahkahkahkah
Ye la manak.. |
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