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Update :
Cikgu itu telah berkahwin..
dan aishah masih single mingle..
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Assalammu'alaikum Koala. Kalau Koala ada kekuatan utk tegur Aishah, tegurlah. Kemudian doakan keampunannya, minta Allah bukakan hatinya utk bertaubat dan insaf. Tapi kalau Koala rasa tindakan menegurnya akan merenggangkan hubungan kalian adik-beradik (or worse, dia tak nak dah balik kampung during Raya sbb malu), tak payahlah tegur. Dia dah dewasa. Dia tahu baik buruk. Dia tahu membaca. Dia boleh mencari hidayah kalau dia hendak.
Benar, yg paling susah kita nak dakwah ialah ahli keluarga kita sendiri. Jgn sedih. Nabi Muhammad pun tak dpt nak Islamkan bapa saudaranya, inikan kita. Kita tiada kuasa nak ubah org. Hanya Allah tmpt kita meminta pertolongan. Koala sendiri tingkatkanlah amal ibadat. Koala buatlah takat apa yg terdaya - teruskan berdoa utk dia dgn bersungguh2 dan yakin. |
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lindarafee replied at 18-3-2015 05:00 PM
i rest my case
How can you rest your case when you have not even present your argument?  |
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baru google...
jom baca..& cube pahamkan..
Sexual sadism is listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) as a mental disorder. A person who is living with this condition becomes aroused by fantasizing or participating in scenarios where they are hurting or humiliating another individual. Symptoms of Sexual Sadism- This sexual disorder is named for Marquis Donatien de Sade, who wrote novels about the idea of getting pleasure from inflicting pain.
- Sexual fantasies about harming an adult, child or animal are part of the disorder. If an individual has been having fantasies of this nature for six months or more, they meet the criteria for diagnosis under the DSM.
- The person must be experiencing difficulties or impairment in his or her personal relationships or job as a result of their fantasies or behavior to be diagnosed as a sexual sadist.
- The majority of sexual sadists are male.
- The sexual sadist will likely start having fantasies about domination and inflicting pain in adolescents.
- An individual who has these types of sexual fantasies may progress to the stage of starting to act them out in a real, as opposed to simulated, setting.
- Activities that a sexual sadist may engage in include hitting, whipping, burning, cutting or biting. He or she may wish to urinate or defecate on the other person.
- With time, the sexual sadist’s behavior will escalate from exploring this theme with a consenting partner to performing acts on an unwilling one. The individual needs to increase the level of violence to get sexual gratification.
- In scenarios where the encounter with a sadist is not consensual, [color=rgb(175, 65, 0) !important]rape and/or murder may be carried out. The stimulus for the sadist is domination over and fear of the victim during the acts of [color=rgb(175, 65, 0) !important]violence.
Treatment of Sexual SadismPeople who fit the criteria for sexual sadism may not seek treatment on their own due to [color=rgb(175, 65, 0) !important]feelings of shame or concerns about being reported to the authorities if they have been engaging in non-consensual sadistic activities. Once a person has been charged with an offense, the justice system’s focus is on segregation from society and punishment. [color=rgb(175, 65, 0) !important]Behavior therapy is a common approach to treating sexual sadism patients. The individual learns how to change their arousal patterns to more socially accepted ones. The therapy may also include social skills instruction to help the patient develop more positive ways of interacting with others. Along with talk [color=rgb(175, 65, 0) !important]therapy, the sexual sadism patient may be prescribed medications. If there is concern about an individual harming someone else, administering female hormones or antiandrogen drugs can help to reduce testosterone levels. Some SSRI (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors), which are used to treat [color=rgb(175, 65, 0) !important]depression, may also be helpful in treating this disorder. The number and intensity of sadistic fantasies tends to decrease with age. A person who knows or suspects that the definition of sexual sadism applies to them can be helped if they receive appropriate treatment from a trained professional. Seeing a therapist with experience treating sexual sadism or going to a sexual addiction treatment facility can help the patient start his or her recovery.
P/s: u allz...bile u allz kata suruh nikah kawin...omg....sgt teringat pd golongan bijak pandai yg mintak paedo tu kawin...maka selesai la masalah...
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yes...stuju...
manja harap TT dpt bantu adik TT tu...
tp kalau kosnye manja x pasti brape...harap TT mampun utk mendapat profesional help..mcm ni....
hati2..yea..cari yg bertauliah...
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namirulmukminin replied at 19-4-2016 09:45 AM
Booooo.. hero tamil takdak batu mai dah ratib nama aku....
Moh jenguk tred kantoi ko ni ...
Bosan la nk ulang isu kau yg looser ni. Hehehe letih jari je. |
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x penah dan pun kenal ppuan bdsm nih ..........ingat dlam lakonan jek wujud
best x ikat ikat nih???............mcam nk bkenalan jek ngan adik tt
hihihihi |
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TT kena ajak adik TTdirikan solat selain usaha yg lain2 tu. Mulakan sikit2 dulu. Insya Allah dengan solat ni hati beliau akan berubah |
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TT kena ajak adik TTdirikan solat selain usaha yg lain2 tu. Mulakan sikit2 dulu. Insya Allah dengan solat ni hati beliau akan berubah |
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Ajaklah adik tt tu tunaikan solat. Mula2 memang susah... tapi lama2 dia akan biasa. Bila dah jaga solat... yg lain tu senang sikit nak ajar. |
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Assalamualaikum semua..
Harini 14/7/2020..
lepas 5 tahun koala buat pengakuan ni..
koala nak bagitau Aishah masih sama..
sedih yang teramat sgt..
Koala recall balik..
Aishah yang dulu bekerja di Johor..
dapat pindah semula kerja di company sama di KL..
jadi dah lebih 8 tahun Aishah kerja..
gaji pun dah makin sedap..
menyewa satu bilik apartment..
tidak berkongsi dengan sesiapa..
walaupun koala ada mintak dia tinggal dengan koala..
dia xnak..
koala hormat sbb koala fikir dia perlu ada time dia..
dan koala pun hormatkan kebebasan suami koala jugak..
koala baru dapat DM fb dari seorang perempuan ni..
dia mengaku dia adalah seorang wartawan tugasannya dalam bidang BDSM di Malaysia..
Wallahualam, koala xpasti nak percaya atau pun tidak..
cuma yang pasti..
ape cerita yang Haron pernah ceritakan 5 tahun lepas..
wartawan nih ulang balik..
koala namakan wartawan ni Liza..
Liza DM koala dalam 2-3 hari lepas..
Liza mengatakan yang Aishah masih dalam aktiviti BDSM nya itu..
malah sekarang Aishah antara slave yang famous..
byk term-term yang Liza bagitau koala..
Aishah ada 5-6 dom/master/tuan..
yang mana setiap kali dom ini inginkan buat session BDSM..
slave/sub kena ikut arahan..
dan sekarang dom Aishah adalah seorang suami dan ayah kepada dua orang anak..
dan mereka selalu ke sana ke sini berdua.. bercuti ke langkawi, genting, melaka..
koala xtau BDSM nih selalu in group atau boleh berdua..
tp ada jugak Liza bagitau Aishah pun ada terlibat dalam group session..
mulanya koala tak percaya..
habis dihntar gambar dalam FB Aishah yang lain..
yang xde dalam adik beradik keluarga semua..
mcm korang tau..
koala takde kekuatan utk nasihatkan adik koala nih..
sbb koala tau.. dia akan menjauh dari koala..
dan hanya koala kakak di kl..
kalau dia menjauh, apa kata ibu dan ayah nt..
cuma sekarang.. koala share cerita ini dengan adik lelaki koala..
adik lelaki koala dah besar panjang..
dulu dia kecik lagi xleh nak story mory..
adik lelaki koala dah tegur dia..
cumanya masih baru sembang ckp yang adik dah tau ape dia buat..
berubah la selagi benda nih belum sampai ke pengetahuan ibu ayah..
Aishah terdiam dan kata dia akan berubah..
koala masih lagi terima DM dari wartawan tu..
semua gambar2 masih terpahat dalam kepala koala..
dua tiga malam asik memikirkan Aishah..
kenapa cetek sgt fikiran...
koala rasa koala bkn kakak yang baik..
Maafkan kakak Aishah..
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adik uols tu bole berubah klu dia nak
dlm masa yg sama doa drp parents sgt la penting
tegur secara lembut ..berhikmah
skit2 dia akan berubah ke arah lbh baik 
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perlu kah perkara sampai ke pengetahuan ibu dan ayah koala?
koala takut Aishah akan lari terus dari pangkuan keluarga..
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jgn citer kat parents aktiviti sheols tu
just mintak parents doakn sheols lembut hati...doa yg baik2..
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Cari pakar sakit jiwa ke atau mana mana badan persatuan, beri contact tu pada Aishah. Doakan bila dia dah penat dan rasa lost and fade up dia akan look for help. I think u can only pray for her ..sbb dia pun dah besar panjang sangat.
U pun nampak gaya jenis kakak yang soft je so x mungkin u boleh overcome ur sister. U cant do much bila involved benda gini, least u can do pray for her. Jika bawah umur boleh la tangkap and masukkan pusat pemulihan , yet ni masalah yg kompleks. |
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bila umur dah 30..
mmg susah utk ditegur..
koala ada jugak terfikir nak bawak ke psikiatrist..
tp mesti kena ckp dgn dia dulu..
skrang adik lelaki dah pun tegur dia..
dia ugut utk tak balik kpg..
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no need, its her life and her choices. Lainla 13 tahun, u sebat je la. Ni 30. U dah nasihat and as well adik lelaki. Like i suggest find a contact no or apa apa info yg boleh triger her mind bila dah ready. Nanti u push lagi dia menjauh. So ni more to her personal apa dia suka and tidak her preference in sex etc. So its sensetive issue. Just let her be, be her sister and friend. Itu je, someone yg dia boleh count on. Good enaf
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Post time 28-3-2016 06:49 PM
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